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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th September 2017, 22:36
Replies: 7
Views: 1,199
Posted By Silver
Re: Loneliness...again

You have summed it up perfectly, same with me its finding the connection with people that I really struggle with.

I miss my dad a lot, I really wish he was nearer and I didnt have to spend 2...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th September 2017, 17:51
Replies: 7
Views: 1,199
Posted By Silver
Re: Loneliness...again

Sigh :screams:. Yes ive been to a million meet ups, social groups, courses, evening classes, not that it helps with making close friends I find. Sorry i know youre just trying to help but it just...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th September 2017, 14:14
Replies: 7
Views: 1,199
Posted By Silver
Loneliness...again

Yes its that recurring issue again. I dont really suffer with sa anymore (apart from with certain types of people who I generally avoid anyway) but loneliness is a recurring issue. It is always worse...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th August 2017, 17:45
Replies: 12
Views: 1,729
Posted By Silver
Re: Highly sensitive person

Sorry for the late reply. Just wanted to say a massive thanks to all of you for replying :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th August 2017, 13:19
Replies: 15
Views: 1,945
Posted By Silver
Re: Trapped

Dont know what to say other than sending you big hugs xx
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th August 2017, 13:13
Replies: 12
Views: 1,729
Posted By Silver
Highly sensitive person

Is anyone else here a highly sensitive person and if so, do you feel it has contributed to your sa? I always wondered why I got upset easily (especially at work, god I seem to be constantly crying in...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 19th January 2017, 16:54
Replies: 1,760
Views: 257,175
Posted By Silver
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

I have short intense moments of feeling suicidal. Usually they dont last long and I can snap out of them. My big fear of course is that I wont be able to snap out of one in the future and it will...
Forum: Club 30-81 18th January 2017, 11:33
Replies: 1,045
Views: 209,418
Posted By Silver
Re: You know you're getting old when..

1. You hear the charts and think most of the music is shit (and believe me I used to LOVE chart music)
2. You look at pictures of yourself as a baby/child and everything is so dated and old...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th September 2016, 11:16
Replies: 11
Views: 2,197
Posted By Silver
Re: Back to square one :(

:hug2: Thanks avoider and newbs16 and everyone else for the replies. I do a lot of things alone and find I can still have fun alone. Its easier after a while and at least you can do your own thing...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th September 2016, 09:47
Replies: 11
Views: 2,197
Posted By Silver
Re: Back to square one :(

I don't know what's happening with my friend. We don't really chat anymore so I don't know :( I'm pushing him away because in all honesty I don't feel like I deserve him as a friend. He could do much...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd September 2016, 17:27
Replies: 11
Views: 2,197
Posted By Silver
Back to square one :(

Hello to anyone who remembers me :wave: I still struggle with loneliness and emptiness and have now drifted away from every friend I ever had. Recently went on holiday with the only close friend I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th December 2014, 10:55
Replies: 5
Views: 1,722
Posted By Silver
Re: I hate this time of year.

Hmm could you set yourself a goal. Maybe cook a nice meal or try something new, go for a walk somewhere new, read a chapter of a book. I can't believe you have no interests. There must be something...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd December 2014, 14:43
Replies: 20
Views: 2,076
Posted By Silver
Re: Fear of Intimacy

I have a fear of intimacy and dont know how to get rid of it. Im fine with hugs, possibly holding hands etc but physical touching and kissing terrifies me because im scared of what it will lead to. I...
Forum: The Lounge 5th December 2014, 11:31
Replies: 8,166
Views: 847,602
Posted By Silver
Re: TV programs you're watching?

This makes me sound like a massive geek but I watched 2 railway programmes this week...continental railways from Israel (which was really interesting) and the railway prog about first great western...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st December 2014, 01:10
Replies: 5
Views: 1,580
Posted By Silver
Re: What can I do RIGHT NOW when I don't want to be shut in

Its sounds obvious but could you not just go for a walk if you need to get out of the house. If your self conscious then go at night. For me the best way to meet people has been to follow my...
Forum: The Lounge 28th November 2014, 13:46
Replies: 51
Views: 4,482
Posted By Silver
Re: Xmas

I absolutely loathe Christmas songs. Its like 'we've heard these shite songs a million times before', just give it a rest and bury them for good so we never have to hear any of those bloody songs...
Forum: The Lounge 20th November 2014, 19:13
Replies: 57
Views: 6,652
Posted By Silver
Re: At what age should men stop wearing hoodies?

Im 32 and I LOVE hoodies and wear them all the time. Don't care if I am too old. I have a purple superdry hoodie which I just love
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th November 2014, 17:41
Replies: 14
Views: 2,423
Posted By Silver
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th November 2014, 17:31
Replies: 14
Views: 2,423
Posted By Silver
Losing family/parents

Do you worry about losing a parent(s) or other family members and then being completely alone/isolated because of sa/depression and wondering how you would cope? Recently at work a girl only a few...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd November 2014, 23:06
Replies: 17
Views: 1,546
Posted By Silver
Re: I'm boring

:eekpurple omg your so called friend sounds like an insensitive prick. Why are people so horrible :headshake Just because you are quiet does not make you boring :hug2:
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th October 2014, 13:50
Replies: 10
Views: 1,323
Posted By Silver
Re: Is it really possible to overcome/beat depression and negativity for good?

Yes I know this but do you know how hard it is to stop comfort eating. VERY HARD - that's what. These people who say comfort eaters are lazy don't understand its all driven by the brain. If I could...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th October 2014, 13:15
Replies: 10
Views: 1,323
Posted By Silver
Re: Is it really possible to overcome/beat depression and negativity for good?

Thanks peter. Oh I could improve my diet yes but food cheers me up. The lack of motivation is the hardest thing to change which is crazy when I hate being like this
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th October 2014, 12:39
Replies: 10
Views: 1,323
Posted By Silver
Is it really possible to overcome/beat depression and negativity for good?

The older I get, the more I think that depression/negativity/low self esteem are evil things that I just have to learn to live with. I am tired of fighting them to be honest. I have tried so many...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th October 2014, 12:29
Replies: 5
Views: 1,633
Posted By Silver
Re: Why do you not feel like socialising when you feel down?

Take small steps. Write yourself a task list and maybe set yourself a time limit to complete something. Thats the best thing you can do. I find if I can force myself to do one thing, often I feel...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th October 2014, 17:56
Replies: 15
Views: 2,010
Posted By Silver
Re: Methods for dealing with negative thoughts

Thanks. It got too much today and I left work early in tears. I just don't want to live like this any more. It feels like there is a big part of me that doesn't want to change which I dont understand...
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