Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
8th January 2016, 20:04
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,967
Re: In-laws who don't like you?
Maybe it's because you're quiet. People act this way with quiet people, (I'm not a big conversationalist either). Nobody likes not knowing what to say. You'd think the big mouths would fill in the...
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Forum: The Lounge
30th December 2015, 23:58
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,118
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd December 2015, 02:39
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,588
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd December 2015, 01:52
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,588
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Forum: The Lounge
17th December 2015, 22:07
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Replies: 1,288
Views: 133,216
Re: What did you dream about last night?
Yes, writing is hard. But write your ideas down anyway. One day you might feel the urge to sit in a coffee shop like JK Rowling and spew it all out. (Sorry for the bad analogy).
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Forum: The Lounge
17th December 2015, 01:13
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Replies: 1,288
Views: 133,216
Re: What did you dream about last night?
You're a dream wizard boy. Maybe your B6 game is strong, maybe you're a creative genius. Get a dream diary, you could make what enfolds into a blockbuster movie.
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Forum: The Lounge
15th December 2015, 23:03
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Replies: 1,288
Views: 133,216
Re: What did you dream about last night?
I don't remember my dreams either. It can be a symptom of B6 deficiency. Have you heard of Pyroluria? It can cause SA and alsorts of emotional problems, caused by lack of B6 & Zinc. I've just...
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Forum: Club 30-81
15th December 2015, 20:33
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Replies: 1,063
Views: 234,111
Re: The 80s music thread
Ordinary boys, happy knowing nothing
Happy being no-one but themselves.
Ordinary girls, supermarket clothes
Who think it's very clever to be cruel to you.
For you were so different...
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Forum: Club 30-81
15th December 2015, 20:02
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Replies: 514
Views: 132,969
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Forum: Club 30-81
15th December 2015, 19:50
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Replies: 98
Views: 25,078
Re: Bring it back.....please
I agree about Ground Force. It was so popular, surely it would work again. Also I liked Changing Rooms but I don't know if it would work now. It was a bit tacky.
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Forum: Club 30-81
14th December 2015, 01:09
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Replies: 98
Views: 25,078
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Forum: Club 30-81
14th December 2015, 01:08
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Replies: 98
Views: 25,078
Re: Bring it back.....please
Beef Puffs. They used to sell them at the school tuck shop. http://www.doyouremember.co.uk/uploads/raw-1309791171-595x417.jpg
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
14th December 2015, 00:24
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,341
Re: How do you make friends?
Same here Clyde33. I have my family, but due to avoiding everything, from jobs to being in the playground on time taking my kids to school, I've managed to amass no new friends in 15 years. 2016 is...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
6th July 2015, 12:54
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,505
Re: 'People' lessons
I think it's a great idea. If you were taught at a really young age it would be easy to implement, like teaching manners. Learning conversation and greeting as manners also, it probably would have...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
25th May 2015, 13:51
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Replies: 6
Views: 2,202
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
13th May 2015, 01:49
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Replies: 39
Views: 3,692
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
13th May 2015, 01:26
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,383
Re: nowhere feels safe
Sorry for your loss Jaicey. Might be an idea to get some kind of grief counselling. You could start by looking on here http://www.cruse.org.uk/
It's bound to hit you and set you back. The other...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
15th April 2015, 00:42
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,711
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
5th April 2015, 17:28
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,560
Re: SA as TOXIC SHAME AND GROWN WOUNDED CHILDREN
Hi Sid, you're welcome. It's a bit confusing to navigate because there's so much on it, it is repetative at the top of the pages. I hope it helps someone. I don't know if it works or not, but it's...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
4th April 2015, 21:10
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,560
Re: SA as TOXIC SHAME AND GROWN WOUNDED CHILDREN
Well I think Shame is a bit of a misunderstood word, but I think that if we aren't proud enough of our opinions, thoughts, our looks, our personalities etc then we must be ashamed somewhat. I think...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd April 2015, 23:16
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,560
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd April 2015, 23:08
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,560
Re: SA as TOXIC SHAME AND GROWN WOUNDED CHILDREN
Hi Nat. It's interesting that your therapist has brushed on this same thing too. Some say that shame is the cause of everyone's SA, and the shame makes us want to hide, hide our personalities, our...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd April 2015, 22:26
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,560
SA as TOXIC SHAME AND GROWN WOUNDED CHILDREN
There is a school of thought that I've recently been reading about and it has helped me and made me more aware of the root of my avoidance & SA.
It's that SA is toxic shame. There are...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd April 2015, 12:38
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Replies: 49
Views: 5,213
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
28th March 2015, 16:44
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,973
Re: To not care
I also get the spaced out thing around certain people! It's like not operating from your core self, you get knocked off center, maybe by trying too hard or taking on a false personality or...
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