Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th January 2021, 12:38
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,432
Quote Meaning?
What does this quote mean - I've grown fond of it but just don't know the meaning of it.
What is the difference between “i like you†and “i love you.†beautifully answered by Buddha:...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th May 2020, 23:49
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,329
Hot And Cold Behaviour!
Hi everyone
I hope you are well and safe.
I come from a dysfunctional background. Growing up around abuse. Sexual abuse. Physical abuse and mental abuse. Surrounded by really unhealthy people....
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd April 2020, 17:03
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
I ended the friendship with him because I had enough of being the one making contact and not getting anything in return. You don't treat a friend badly and then expect the friend to remain as a...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd April 2020, 13:43
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
I sincerely wish I had friends like you all in person. Every person that has replied to my post has really lifted my spirits and raised my self esteem. Reading all your replies has been like therapy...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 22:28
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
Thanks guys - I think this is exactly the case. I mean, to answer the phone and after realising it was me. To speak to me in that tone was just nasty. Seeing me in the street and showing anger full...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 18:41
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 18:18
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
It would appear he has got rid of my number. I rang him and he answered the phone. He asked who is it? As soon as I said my name, I heard him say, "oh **** off" before hanging up.
At least I know...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 18:02
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
I totally agree with you. Please believe me, I'm not reaching out to get a reply when in my heart - I know he won't reply to it. But I need to know I have said these things and he has got it. It's...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 17:38
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Re: Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
My nan died from this virus today. I didn't get to say goodbye. Somehow with my friend, It made me determinded to want to reach out to my friend. I have so much I want to say to him. I have waited...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th April 2020, 16:20
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,782
Trying To Reconnect With Old Friend!
Hi everyone, hope you are safe.
I had a friend who was also my ex. We split up two years ago. We used to work together as well. My friend suffers with depression and a high level of anxiety. Is a...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
16th September 2019, 17:21
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Replies: 0
Views: 902
Employment Advice!
Hi everyone
Hope your all well.
Last December I left my employment to start a new job with a new employer. I loved my old job but felt it was time to move on and try something different.
The...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
19th July 2019, 22:24
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,406
Re: DA - Arguments And Communication
Thank you all for your replies.
I have really researched into my own attachment style and his especially over the past few weeks.
This past week has been incredibly inspiring and positive. I...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
18th July 2019, 22:53
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,406
Re: DA - Arguments And Communication
I rang my friend two days ago and his personal phone went straight to voicemail. I left a message. When his personal phone is off, I know it's his way of needing space.
This evening, I rang his...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
17th July 2019, 19:55
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,406
Re: DA - Arguments And Communication
Hi. Many thanks for your reply.
If he doesn't want to talk to me at the moment. Is there anything you can suggest that I can do? Especially as your an avoidant. You can identify perhaps what works...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
15th July 2019, 19:30
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,406
Re: DA - Arguments And Communication
Hi
Many thanks for your reply.
DA - Dismissive Avoidant Attatchment Style
AP - Anxious Preoccupied Attachment Style
From what it appears, it seems his in a better place in life now. So...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
14th July 2019, 23:04
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,406
DA - Arguments And Communication
I have a question that’s been in my mind for a while now. With so much of the avoidants’ behaviour being pulling away, I wonder how do you have a fair argument with someone who is avoidant? If you...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
7th July 2019, 22:58
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Replies: 1
Views: 1,022
Dismissive-Avoidant And Conflict?
What is the best way in trying to resolve conflict with a Dismissive Avoidant if they refuse to listen to you and they shut down?
Especially if you told them you no longer want anything to do with...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
18th May 2019, 19:57
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,208
From Diet To Turning To Junk Food - Struggling!
How do you focus on motivating yourself to stick to a diet especially when you're going through stress. I'm struggling to fight the urges of wanting to turn to junk food as a coping mechanism. So...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
15th April 2019, 21:04
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,606
New Job - Feeling Incompetent!
Hi everyone
So I have a new job which I started back in March (last month). It's working in mental health but the Forensics side. This is a new side of mental health which I have little knowledge...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
7th April 2019, 09:40
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,553
Re: I'm Confused Even More!!! - Update!
Thank you all for your replies and kind support - I really appreciate it.
I've deleted his numbers and his FB page. This friendship is not healthy. In fact toxic. Friendships are a two way street...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
6th April 2019, 22:48
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,553
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
6th April 2019, 22:12
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,553
I'm Confused Even More!!! - Update!
Hi guys
This is the link with my orginal story. http://www.social-anxiety-community.org/db/showthread.php?t=90498
Update
So I got on with my life. Decided to just move forward. In a new job...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
12th February 2019, 16:20
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,866
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
9th February 2019, 19:31
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,866
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