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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th November 2018, 21:59
Replies: 10
Views: 2,010
Posted By ponder
Re: Has anyone improved their casual social abilities but still can't do anything dee

Thanks to everyone for the responses. Looks like it's a common enough problem but sadly no easy fixes (of course I knew there wouldn't be after all these years of experience!).

I'll just have to...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th November 2018, 21:53
Replies: 10
Views: 2,010
Posted By ponder
Re: Has anyone improved their casual social abilities but still can't do anything dee

Not easily, but I can do the basic pleasantries, how much more than that depends on the person. There's a bit of a "hump of difficulty" when it comes to talking to a new person - basic pleasantries...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th November 2018, 21:48
Replies: 10
Views: 2,010
Posted By ponder
Re: Has anyone improved their casual social abilities but still can't do anything dee

That sounds plausible. One problem I had with CBT was actually relating my gut reactions and feelings to conscious thoughts, but I think in the end it does come down to that.



Well, I've got...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th November 2018, 14:08
Replies: 10
Views: 2,010
Posted By ponder
Has anyone improved their casual social abilities but still can't do anything deeper?

Hello everyone,

I used to post here a few years ago - don't know if there's still anyone around from back then.

I've got quite a lot better in some ways - doing social things doesn't scare me...
Forum: The Lounge 31st January 2012, 00:06
Replies: 461
Views: 37,404
Posted By ponder
Re: skyrim

Always back up!

A few years ago I decided I'd better actually start backing up my data. Hadn't had any problems in many years of owning PCs, but a few weeks after starting doing weekly backups -...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 2nd January 2012, 21:54
Replies: 17
Views: 2,659
Posted By ponder
Re: social anxiety before some american invented the internet

No, that was the world wide web (Tim Berners Lee). The internet was a DARPA (US military thing) project, though of course other people were working on computer networking around the same time.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th December 2011, 00:17
Replies: 14
Views: 1,626
Posted By ponder
Re: Do you feel ill? Fluoride

The world is full of such apparent links which don't mean anything in practice as they're only true under irrelevant conditions (such as very high doses). More potent" is also so ill defined as to be...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th December 2011, 00:00
Replies: 14
Views: 1,626
Posted By ponder
Re: Do you feel ill? Fluoride

There's a huge amount of complete bollocks presented as health information on the internet. I've been unable to find a credible source linking fluoride and hypothyroidism, so take with a pinch of...
Forum: The Lounge 1st October 2011, 01:34
Replies: 32
Views: 2,992
Posted By ponder
Re: what is a dalek

The Daleks were basically just Nazis in space. Understandable, as they were conceived not that long after the end of the second world war - what's impressive is that they were still considered a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th September 2011, 19:14
Replies: 11
Views: 1,813
Posted By ponder
Re: the drugs don't work (well, not really)

Ah, Kirsch again. If this book is of the same standard as Kirsch's paper in PLoS on the same subject then I wouldn't read too much into it. There were some serious flaws in the statistical analysis...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th September 2011, 14:50
Replies: 61
Views: 8,831
Posted By ponder
Re: have you had a bf/gf/partner/spouse etc before

SO begins with a vowel sound ("ess oh"), so it's "an SO". Unless you're pronouncing it like the word "so".
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th August 2011, 16:53
Replies: 46
Views: 4,209
Posted By ponder
Re: Do you care about other people?

That's not anti-social - antisocial refers things actively done against other people, not merely having nothing to do with them. You have no obligation to actively help, just not to harm. Don't be...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th July 2011, 23:10
Replies: 46
Views: 4,743
Posted By ponder
Re: What 'class' do you think you are? Can you talk to people from other backgrounds?

Well, I usually read the Guardian or other broadsheets, never watch soaps or football but do watch documentaries, like Radio 4 but prefer fish and chips or a curry to . What does that make me I...
Forum: The Lounge 26th July 2011, 21:08
Replies: 22
Views: 2,531
Posted By ponder
Re: REALLY annoying Freeview!!

The digital technology is quite vulnerable to interference, particularly if you have old and poorly shielded aerial cabling - are there any electrical appliances which may switch on around this time?
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th July 2011, 23:21
Replies: 76
Views: 12,250
Posted By ponder
Re: Anyone hate living in London?

I liked living in Birmingham, it was big enough to have things to do but wasn't colossal, sprawling, crowded and hideously polluted like certain other cities that will remain nameless :)

I now...
Forum: The Lounge 31st May 2011, 23:13
Replies: 66
Views: 4,381
Posted By ponder
Re: Jokes please

My grandma was a great believer in alternative medicine. When she got ill, she greased her back with lard.

After that she went downhill very quickly.

(Milton Jones)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th April 2011, 19:42
Replies: 1,706
Views: 101,797
Posted By ponder
Re: Internet dating sites

I've been looking at this but can't seem to get over the hurdle of sending the first message - how do you start? Does anyone have any examples?
Forum: The Lounge 8th March 2011, 18:10
Replies: 2,211
Views: 133,500
Posted By ponder
Re: Random questions

The sky is blue because sunlight that would otherwise have missed your eye completely gets scattered into it, with the blue being scattered the most.

However, the colour of the sun that you see is...
Forum: The Lounge 7th March 2011, 23:11
Replies: 2,211
Views: 133,500
Posted By ponder
Re: Random questions

Ooh I know this one. It's due to a phenomenon called Rayleigh scattering, where air molecules scatter sunlight. This process is strongly dependent on the wavelength of light - so blue (short...
Forum: The Lounge 26th February 2011, 11:45
Replies: 44
Views: 4,182
Posted By ponder
Re: Do you talk like an American?

Vitamin is etymologically related to "vital", so the American pronunciation does make sense. Similarly, the discoverer of aluminium at various times called it aluminum, aluminium and alumium. It...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th November 2010, 00:28
Replies: 5
Views: 1,339
Posted By ponder
Re: Who else has post-graduate employment?

By "graduate job" do you mean one which recruits via a specific graduate programme? When I was looking for work I noticed those all tended to follow a theme of seemingly looking for mediocre...
Forum: The Lounge 12th November 2010, 22:31
Replies: 2,211
Views: 133,500
Posted By ponder
Re: Random questions

The universe would behave exactly the same as before, so there would be no way to tell. The laws of physics are invariant with respect to such changes. However, if we were talking about rotation,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 2nd November 2010, 19:29
Replies: 10
Views: 1,750
Posted By ponder
Re: Cuts

The NHS is getting an inflation equivalent budget increase (http://www.healthcarerepublic.com/news/1036166/NHS-budget-rise-114bn-next-four-years/), so why the need for these cuts? Something doesn't...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st October 2010, 01:44
Replies: 3
Views: 1,112
Posted By ponder
Re: Taking initiative

I've tried the coins thing, the problem is that usually the anxiety that I've made the wrong choice persists and I can't go through with it, so end up doing nothing. Which is a choice in itself of...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st October 2010, 00:10
Replies: 3
Views: 1,112
Posted By ponder
Taking initiative

Does anyone else find it really difficult to try new things or make decisions? I don't mean just socially (though that too). For example:

I want to visit some foreign cities, but can't decide...
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