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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st June 2006, 16:54
Replies: 7
Views: 1,491
Posted By Tom-
Re: SA and Depression

I have had SA most of my life but not depression until recently. I think the main reason why I have been depressed is thinking about what I have missed out on in life and lack of progress in life and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th May 2006, 00:54
Replies: 117
Views: 15,479
Posted By Tom-
Re: KAVA capsules???

I just got an 'your order has shipped' email as well but it's the first one I've had, hopefully it will be ok.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th May 2006, 23:15
Replies: 117
Views: 15,479
Posted By Tom-
Re: KAVA capsules???

You could try emailing them :

http://www.food.gov.uk/aboutus/contactus/

(imported food one i guess)

Also found this article :

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/3260943.stm
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th May 2006, 22:26
Replies: 117
Views: 15,479
Posted By Tom-
Re: KAVA capsules???

I wouldn't worry about it, i think you would be pretty unlucky to get it stopped by customs and if they did they would probably just confiscate it.

I just found out that my first order didn't go...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd May 2006, 15:10
Replies: 117
Views: 15,479
Posted By Tom-
Re: KAVA capsules???

I ordered some about a week ago, waiting for it to arrive :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd May 2006, 16:03
Replies: 24
Views: 4,177
Posted By Tom-
Re: "chatting up" females - my ultimate problem

Wow sounds like you have made a lot of progress, you seem to be in good shape for the next step :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th May 2006, 21:55
Replies: 29
Views: 2,578
Posted By Tom-
Re: anyone with sa who cannot dance??

I love to dance when I've drunk enough ;)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 11th May 2006, 20:12
Replies: 30
Views: 3,523
Posted By Tom-
Re: people thinking you are younger than you are

I've have been asked for id a couple of times at the supermarket recently and said no I don't have any and they still let me buy the alcohol.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 11th May 2006, 19:43
Replies: 15
Views: 2,111
Posted By Tom-
Re: SA Differences

I agree that after reading this site for a while there are many different kinds of SA and very different causes for it. One thing I have noticed is some people can be very negative, I am a pretty...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 11th May 2006, 19:30
Replies: 6
Views: 1,663
Posted By Tom-
Re: Inspiration...?

It comforting to know these famous people have/had problems but it's also kind of worrying in a way that even with success and fame people like Morrissey still struggle with SA. Since a lot of SA is...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th April 2006, 23:02
Replies: 117
Views: 15,479
Posted By Tom-
Re: KAVA capsules???

Heard of Kava before and it does sound interesting, might give it a try. That place above seems like a pain to order from, paper based order form and pay by cheque or postal order only?

I found...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th April 2006, 17:00
Replies: 19
Views: 2,043
Posted By Tom-
Re: Night out

Yeah that's good advice, more specifically I find watching my favorite comedy programs or films just before I go can help put me in a better mood.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd April 2006, 21:00
Replies: 6
Views: 1,627
Posted By Tom-
Re: Going off the rails at 40 - Where Next?

Yeah i can totally identify ;) I posted something similar (http://www.social-anxiety-community.org/db/showthread.php?t=5718) a month ago.

Hard to know what to advise, I think the best thing it to...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th April 2006, 17:37
Replies: 4
Views: 1,505
Posted By Tom-
Re: What should I do?

The page may be cached in google for a while, possibly 1-2 months and then it will be refreshed with a newer copy.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th April 2006, 17:07
Replies: 81
Views: 6,918
Posted By Tom-
Re: Extroverted SAers? Huh?

A lot of people are describing what there are currently but the true personality is what the SA is hiding. Think about what you would do with your life with no SA, personally i would socialise a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th April 2006, 19:10
Replies: 6
Views: 1,719
Posted By Tom-
Re: Dating / friends / networking sites

I have considered joining sites like myspace, the only problem with myspace is that after joining I would only have like 1-2 or people on there which would be pretty embarrasing. I wouldn't really...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th April 2006, 18:36
Replies: 8
Views: 1,509
Posted By Tom-
Re: Early mid-life crisis....

Yeah I occassionally browse myspace and it can be really depressing seeing everyone having a active social life and loads of friends etc.. On the other hand it can serve as a wake-up call and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th April 2006, 16:14
Replies: 38
Views: 4,165
Posted By Tom-
Re: the have u bn bullied poll.

I wouldn't say I was ever really badly bullied more just ignored or never really fitting in that well. I usually did have 2-3 good friends going through school. Although after moving house I had to...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th March 2006, 15:00
Replies: 5
Views: 1,412
Posted By Tom-
Re: University

Sounds like me... I went to uni originally and the only friend I made was the person I was sharing a room with (pretty difficult not to in that situation!) but never really left to do anything...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th March 2006, 21:14
Replies: 10
Views: 1,895
Posted By Tom-
Re: Helpful Hints

Good list, nice to see these positive posts, #26 is definitely one i think about a lot recently. Always try and reframe (http://www.nlp-now.co.uk/nlp-reframe.htm) a bad or situation negative...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th March 2006, 00:58
Replies: 20
Views: 1,965
Posted By Tom-
Re: Extreme exposure and CBT

Yeah this is pretty much what programs like 'would like to meet' and 'who would hire you' and 'faking it' are all about, the theory being if you can survive a extreme situation normal everyday ones...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 24th March 2006, 21:48
Replies: 12
Views: 2,039
Posted By Tom-
Re: OK with just one person

I actually prefer 3-4 people, with 1 it can feel uncomfortable with more at least the stress isn't on you to continue conversation etc..
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st March 2006, 00:33
Replies: 12
Views: 1,913
Posted By Tom-
Re: Losing interest in things I used to love

Thanks for all the replies, I will try and set more short term goals, I usually have big long term ones but these seem often seem unachievable. I feel better after posting anyway.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th March 2006, 02:09
Replies: 12
Views: 1,913
Posted By Tom-
Re: Losing interest in things I used to love

That is definitely one of my biggest fears, I think I like/need change but at the same time find change very hard.



Yes wanting a change in career/direction is hard for most people but with SA...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th March 2006, 01:58
Replies: 12
Views: 1,913
Posted By Tom-
Re: Losing interest in things I used to love

Yes I have been obsessing about that as well, I have spent most of the last 5 months just thinking about this pretty much anytime I am not fully engaged in something else.

My goals/aspirations...
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