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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th September 2022, 18:11
Replies: 11
Views: 1,352
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: recording my redundancy panic/journey whilst suffering SA

thank you everyone :) I really appreciate your responses. Was almost afraid to come back to this, because posting the video was massively out of my comfort zone (particularly with no makeup on lol),...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th September 2022, 22:57
Replies: 11
Views: 1,352
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: recording my redundancy panic/journey whilst suffering SA

I'm so glad if it helps, Biscuits! I feel like im going a bit mad by myself right now and needed to vent about the situation. A massive change against your will really is a big anxiety trigger. I'm...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th September 2022, 22:09
Replies: 11
Views: 1,352
Posted By scarlettgirl
recording my redundancy panic/journey whilst suffering SA

excuse my ugly mug, but im having a Time right now, and needed to record my feelings/thoughts through it all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdaoPXn-RSI

if anyone else is active on youtube,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 26th July 2022, 10:35
Replies: 17
Views: 1,753
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: My final post

best of luck to you. Can I ask what your job is?
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th June 2022, 22:31
Replies: 14
Views: 1,250
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Do you have disdain for quiet people that don't act like they're quiet?

i don't particularly struggle with quiet people. in fact, if i gather that they are just quiet, it seems to take the pressure off me to do the conversation heavy lifting and we can just be quiet...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 10th May 2022, 21:45
Replies: 9
Views: 1,206
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Is there any hope left??

There has to be hope, but only if you realign your expectations about life. I think Moksha is bang on. I joined this forum back in my 20's, and I expected things to change.

Things did, but not in...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th April 2022, 19:43
Replies: 7
Views: 1,104
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Moody co-worker

Thank you for your replies :)

i sent my coworker a message the other day and we had a chat and she was sincerely sorry. I feel guilty now for building up all these thoughts in my mind about what...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th March 2022, 22:03
Replies: 7
Views: 1,104
Posted By scarlettgirl
Moody co-worker

I am just wondering if anyone else has to deal with a 'moody' 'sulky' coworker.

I work very closely with one other person. It's unfortunate, because we can't really avoid each other if one of us...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th March 2022, 21:49
Replies: 23
Views: 2,369
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Have you ever called in sick at work when you're not really sick?

Yes. I did it last week. It doesn't happen often at all, I think at most i take about 2 'sick' days a year, but when I take them they do feel valid. Some days are just awful and i need a day to...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 28th March 2022, 21:42
Replies: 24
Views: 1,741
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Do people mistake your anxiety for something else

Same. Which in turn makes me more self-conscious and the self-esteem plummets all the more. I know I'm not stupid, but the way people treat me kind of encourages that line of thinking. So then its...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st October 2021, 21:00
Replies: 35
Views: 4,376
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: I never want to remove my facemask

i prefer wearing a mask because it does feel like you can hide yourself away some more. And strangely, even though I'm obviously self conscious about many things, I never care about nobody else...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st April 2021, 21:15
Replies: 28
Views: 3,080
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: What goes through your mind if someone describes you as quiet

I get annoyed and paranoid and then feel very boring.
It doesn't help that at school one guy once said i didn't talk and was boring to my face. So yeah, confirms that fear.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 10th April 2021, 18:55
Replies: 36
Views: 4,090
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Do you think you'll make more effort to be social once we're "back to normal"?

I won't do much at all. I'm one of those people who kind of prefers this no-pressure to socialise situation because there's no choice in the matter, and dreading the return to 'normality'. I know...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd September 2020, 23:29
Replies: 29
Views: 2,790
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: It's not always about 'you' (ramble)

Exactly. From whatever disorder it originates, it doesn't matter, the point is how we are unfortunately coming across to other people. I think it creates a vicious cycle of insecurity. This...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd September 2020, 23:26
Replies: 29
Views: 2,790
Posted By scarlettgirl
It's not always about 'you' (ramble)

I'll probably get a lot of hate for this, but oh well.

One thing I've noticed upon being friends with other people who suffer SA, is just how self involved/wallowing/soul sapping they can be. And...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th September 2020, 18:51
Replies: 8
Views: 2,658
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: I dont know why I do this, can anyone relate? (Cancelling plans)

Yeah I was about to suggest it could be that, besides your body taking this instinctive flight reaction because the idea of being social is stressful by itself. The genuine relief of cancelling a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th September 2020, 18:48
Replies: 3
Views: 1,540
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: I don't feel real

Yes, Bry. Completely relate. But at this point putting on the act of what i think i should be is getting very tiring. One day I like to think I'll get so tired I'll just stop caring and be free to be...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th July 2020, 21:54
Replies: 14
Views: 2,206
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Have you ever been punched or challenged to a fight?

Has it been mostly guys responding to this so far? I'm interested to know if any other girls have been punched, as I have hah.
It was back in my goth days in early 00's; went to a nightclub where a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th March 2020, 20:42
Replies: 44
Views: 4,389
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: As we get older...

I'm sorry I'm late responding to yall, but this was a very interesting read. So many different perspectives and bits of advice, i'll take it all into consideration.

Marie8 I'm sorry you're feeling...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th March 2020, 20:38
Replies: 5
Views: 1,472
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: SA easier around strangers, worse with people I already know

I just came in to say I relate exactly to this. And yeah, it's probably just a case of knowing you're likely never to see that person/people again, so who cares. whereas you have to maintain a social...
Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room 13th February 2020, 00:37
Replies: 16
Views: 5,818
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Is there any hope?

Hi, Felina. Exactly the same situation as you; 34 with a job but not much else to speak of. Feel like life is slipping away. I wish I could offer some advice, we just have to keep on keeping on I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 13th February 2020, 00:25
Replies: 44
Views: 4,389
Posted By scarlettgirl
As we get older...

does anyone find their anxiety settling or worsening?

speaking as a 34 year old woman, mine definitely seems to be worsening.
I just feel so bland and personality-less... the older I get the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th December 2019, 00:53
Replies: 17
Views: 2,504
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: So. Christmas Day.. Better than expected? Worse? About the same?

It wasn't so bad as I was dreading. Just mum, dad, my brother and his girlfriend. then a cousin visit (we do a little present swap every year and a catch up). I went home on boxing day and now its...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st December 2019, 14:43
Replies: 24
Views: 1,900
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Were you described as shy as a child?

I was always described as shy, by teachers and students alike. I was bullied by other students for it who liked to call me a mute. I can't really blame them.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th November 2019, 22:38
Replies: 11
Views: 1,294
Posted By scarlettgirl
Re: Nostalgia

i think you nail it! it's the time of childhood and also feels like a more innocent time (obviously wasn't that innocent at all lol). I'm an 85 baby, so remember very little of the 80's, but the time...
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