Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd February 2013, 19:24
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
Not that I know of. They don't tell me anything. I sent a friends request to 2 of my flatmates on facebook but they have not accepted or ignored and its been day's now. It's possible that they don't...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd February 2013, 18:53
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
Thanks for everyones reply's
I don't know how to make friends with people on my course. I only see them for leactures and you can't talk in them. Everyone sits in there own groups and no one...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
30th January 2013, 16:48
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
I understand what you are saying but I don't think people will be able to tell wether Im happy or not there not mind readers. They probably know nothing about how im feeling I don't hate myself just...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
30th January 2013, 15:41
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
I don't know what there scedules are but I sometimes see them one 2 one in the kitchen when someone in cooking etc. They usually say hi and I say hi back but they don't seem interested in talking but...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
30th January 2013, 15:13
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
I don't just want to fit in and it's not that I care what they think as such. I genuinely want a social life and friends and my flatmates are the best place to start. My anxiety and lack of social...
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
29th January 2013, 20:55
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,202
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th January 2013, 18:19
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
Thats an excellant point retepe. Shyness prevents me from being my true self. Ive lived with it for so long It became a part of my life and I thought it was me. Been shy does not feel natural anymore...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
29th January 2013, 14:59
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
I did contact mental health services online and it took weeks for them to even reply and ask me to make an appointment over the phone. Is it worth my time can they offer much?
Another problem is i...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
28th January 2013, 23:07
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Re: Isolated from flatmates
Thank you for your reply's Ollyh and mina!
The thing is its hard for me to get used to a new group of people. If I joined a society I would have to meet completely new people who may judge me all...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
28th January 2013, 19:31
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Replies: 25
Views: 11,045
Isolated from flatmates
Its half way through my year at uni at I still don't know my flatmates. They are typical students they go out clubbing and partying all the time and are always in massive groups. I have nothing...
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
25th January 2013, 13:10
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,824
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd January 2013, 17:46
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,717
Re: Group conversations
I find group convos very hard. When you speak to one person they focus there attention on you and ask questions. When there is more people they talk to each other and I get ignored more ontop of the...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th January 2013, 17:28
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Replies: 158
Views: 20,778
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
19th January 2013, 23:57
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,936
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
19th January 2013, 20:37
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,936
Re: How to make friends
Your situation sounds very similar to mine. I can talk a bit but don't know what to say. Everyone else seems to have a thriving social life already and I don't quite know how to fit in to it. ...
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Forum: The Lounge
16th January 2013, 21:21
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Replies: 94
Views: 6,924
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Forum: Club 30-81
16th January 2013, 20:36
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,231
Re: His Masters Voice.......................
I like browsing HMV and if I really like a band I want the actual CD not just files on a PC. I get special editions with good covers and the lyrics included. Spotify is good for finding new bands to...
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
16th January 2013, 19:27
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,001
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
16th January 2013, 19:12
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Replies: 30
Views: 15,707
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Forum: Room with a View
15th January 2013, 23:26
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,516
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Forum: The Lounge
11th January 2013, 22:58
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Replies: 4,577
Views: 293,867
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
11th January 2013, 13:40
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,134
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
11th January 2013, 12:18
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,285
Re: I'm a burden
Your not a bad person. If you were you would not be expressing regret over upsetting people here. Im at university as well and I struggle to make conversation. When I first got here I dreaded to...
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
11th January 2013, 12:08
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,354
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
10th January 2013, 20:25
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,870
Re: Making conversation?
Freshers week was a long time ago now Im already established as a loner so I can't half truth it as you said because its been to long. I don't know how to break the ice with them. Im not afraid of...
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