Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th September 2011, 14:50
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,283
Re: Loneliness :(
Nice post Peterjohn, very uplifting :)
Most of the time, I'm content/happy to be alone (i.e. to come home after work every night and sit in my flat on the computer or watching a film) as I'd...
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Forum: The Lounge
6th January 2011, 19:27
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,604
Re: Volutary, Charity, Community Work
I could've written this same post pretty much word-for-word! I work full time too but desperately need to meet people and make new friends so I came up with volunteering as one of the ways I could do...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
6th December 2010, 12:23
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,937
Re: where to meet new people?
My life's stuck in a rut too and I'm looking for ways to meet new people... and new people I click with which I guess is much harder!
I've been considering evening classes - would you find those...
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Forum: The Lounge
23rd August 2010, 12:57
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,571
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Forum: The Lounge
22nd August 2010, 18:22
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Replies: 38
Views: 3,046
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd August 2010, 17:58
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Replies: 8
Views: 4,665
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
19th August 2010, 11:31
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Replies: 8
Views: 4,665
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
12th August 2010, 13:43
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Replies: 52
Views: 4,358
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Forum: Room with a View
12th August 2010, 13:38
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Replies: 302
Views: 56,955
Re: Where are you in your recovery?
I don't really know any more - I think I've generally been on an upward curve over the last 5 years or so but the same old problems (looking scared/tense when talking to certain people, overthinking,...
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Forum: The Lounge
12th August 2010, 13:30
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,680
Re: Ebay users?
I signed up in 2000 and don't use it that often but haven't had many problems when I have. Good luck Trev!
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Forum: The Lounge
9th August 2010, 20:10
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Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)
^ Same here. I don't want to complain about my life to people YET AGAIN and I feel that when push comes to shove, I have absolutely nobody to turn to :(
Hope you feel a bit better soon...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
9th August 2010, 20:09
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Re: Holiday = SA disaster
Actually, I was feeling low before going on this holiday and was hoping that I'd feel better after it... but I feel even worse now, I wish I hadn't gone and I think it's damaged my friendship with...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
8th August 2010, 13:00
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Re: Holiday = SA disaster
Thanks for the support Clive :) You're right about all SAers having bad days but I genuinely (naively?) thought that ones like I had on this holiday were behind me. I don't know what'll happen from...
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Forum: The Lounge
7th August 2010, 21:42
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Replies: 47
Views: 5,271
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
7th August 2010, 21:38
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Holiday = SA disaster
I went on holiday this week and met up with two people from another forum. One was a guy who I hadn't met before and the other was a girl who is one of my best friends (and if I'm honest, who I have...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
7th August 2010, 21:01
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,782
Re: Struggle with eye contact
Your eye contact has always seemed perfectly normal whenever I've spoken to you D :)
I still struggle with this. I either don't look at people at all when I'm talking to them - especially on the...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th July 2010, 20:28
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,251
Re: Working in a job below your capabilities?
It's sad that so many of you have been/are being held back by SA :(
I've been for counselling in the past but that stopped doing anything for me after a while. I'd be potentially interested in...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th July 2010, 14:39
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,140
Re: Graduation
Nice one Becky!
I felt a little nervous during the ceremony but I wasn't worried as such, just proud. My graduation was the happiest time of my life and if I could, I'd happily go back to those...
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Forum: The Lounge
20th July 2010, 13:41
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,338
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
20th July 2010, 13:33
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,251
Working in a job below your capabilities?
Does anyone else find that SA/depression has held their career back and think that without it, they could be working in a job with a higher ranking/status and earning more?
I work as an IT tech...
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Forum: The Lounge
20th July 2010, 13:00
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Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)
Yeah but I never see anyone else having that kind of trouble with it, I just have a knack for screwing things up in general!
Do you not have an umbrella or a coat with a hood? I couldn't go...
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Forum: The Lounge
20th July 2010, 12:45
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Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)
Pathetic - I've just been stood outside for minutes trying to use my swipe card to get back into work only to be told I was holding it the wrong way. How could I manage that!? I use it several times...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
9th July 2010, 15:28
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,907
Re: I gave up a long time ago
There's been nothing hugely awful that's happened in my life lately but I've still lost virtually all my enthusiasm for it over the last weeks... I feel like I'm just being crushed by life. I have a...
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Forum: The Lounge
9th July 2010, 15:17
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Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)
Genuinely glad it's the weekend so I can get back to my parents' place, switch off and truly relax for once but also wondering where my enthusiasm for life has gone :confused:
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
4th July 2010, 17:28
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,932
Re: The fear of telling stories
I have no stories or 'banter' to speak of either - I can happily listen to other people's stories and (if I'm on good form socially) make contributions through those.
But anything where the focus...
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