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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th September 2011, 14:50
Replies: 14
Views: 2,283
Posted By Andrew
Re: Loneliness :(

Nice post Peterjohn, very uplifting :)

Most of the time, I'm content/happy to be alone (i.e. to come home after work every night and sit in my flat on the computer or watching a film) as I'd...
Forum: The Lounge 6th January 2011, 19:27
Replies: 29
Views: 2,604
Posted By Andrew
Re: Volutary, Charity, Community Work

I could've written this same post pretty much word-for-word! I work full time too but desperately need to meet people and make new friends so I came up with volunteering as one of the ways I could do...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 6th December 2010, 12:23
Replies: 10
Views: 1,937
Posted By Andrew
Re: where to meet new people?

My life's stuck in a rut too and I'm looking for ways to meet new people... and new people I click with which I guess is much harder!

I've been considering evening classes - would you find those...
Forum: The Lounge 23rd August 2010, 12:57
Replies: 39
Views: 2,571
Posted By Andrew
Re: what was the first single you bought...

Oasis - Don't Look Back In Anger on cassette in 1996. I didn't get a CD player until relatively late!
Forum: The Lounge 22nd August 2010, 18:22
Replies: 38
Views: 3,046
Posted By Andrew
Re: Facebook Users - How many friends do you have on fb?

179 from a mixture of places - SAUK, another forum I frequent much more than here, people I've met at gigs, old school friends/classmates, a few from a grad course I went on a few years ago and the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd August 2010, 17:58
Replies: 8
Views: 4,665
Posted By Andrew
Re: Those of you who work full-time and have regular CBT/therapy sessions on the NHS.

Thanks for the replies folks - fitting it around a full-time job doesn't look too promising then judging by the (lack of) replies :-s I really want to work with someone on getting better, I know I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th August 2010, 11:31
Replies: 8
Views: 4,665
Posted By Andrew
Those of you who work full-time and have regular CBT/therapy sessions on the NHS...

...how do you fit it in? I've decided that enough is enough and want to try and get psychoanalytic therapy on the NHS (or CBT at the very least, I've had counselling before and found it too 'basic',...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th August 2010, 13:43
Replies: 52
Views: 4,358
Posted By Andrew
Re: What's the longest you have gone without socialisng?

There was a period between 2003 and 2005 (can't give a more specific date) when I think I went 3 or 4 weeks without leaving the house. It probably screwed me up but I was content in my own bubble at...
Forum: Room with a View 12th August 2010, 13:38
Replies: 302
Views: 56,955
Posted By Andrew
Re: Where are you in your recovery?

I don't really know any more - I think I've generally been on an upward curve over the last 5 years or so but the same old problems (looking scared/tense when talking to certain people, overthinking,...
Forum: The Lounge 12th August 2010, 13:30
Replies: 20
Views: 1,680
Posted By Andrew
Re: Ebay users?

I signed up in 2000 and don't use it that often but haven't had many problems when I have. Good luck Trev!
Forum: The Lounge 9th August 2010, 20:10
Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Posted By Andrew
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)

^ Same here. I don't want to complain about my life to people YET AGAIN and I feel that when push comes to shove, I have absolutely nobody to turn to :(

Hope you feel a bit better soon...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th August 2010, 20:09
Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Posted By Andrew
Re: Holiday = SA disaster

Actually, I was feeling low before going on this holiday and was hoping that I'd feel better after it... but I feel even worse now, I wish I hadn't gone and I think it's damaged my friendship with...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th August 2010, 13:00
Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Posted By Andrew
Re: Holiday = SA disaster

Thanks for the support Clive :) You're right about all SAers having bad days but I genuinely (naively?) thought that ones like I had on this holiday were behind me. I don't know what'll happen from...
Forum: The Lounge 7th August 2010, 21:42
Replies: 47
Views: 5,271
Posted By Andrew
Re: How often do you shower, bath or wash?

I shower once a day in the early evening, I can't remember the last time I had a bath!
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th August 2010, 21:38
Replies: 6
Views: 1,685
Posted By Andrew
Holiday = SA disaster

I went on holiday this week and met up with two people from another forum. One was a guy who I hadn't met before and the other was a girl who is one of my best friends (and if I'm honest, who I have...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th August 2010, 21:01
Replies: 12
Views: 1,782
Posted By Andrew
Re: Struggle with eye contact

Your eye contact has always seemed perfectly normal whenever I've spoken to you D :)

I still struggle with this. I either don't look at people at all when I'm talking to them - especially on the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th July 2010, 20:28
Replies: 34
Views: 4,251
Posted By Andrew
Re: Working in a job below your capabilities?

It's sad that so many of you have been/are being held back by SA :(



I've been for counselling in the past but that stopped doing anything for me after a while. I'd be potentially interested in...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th July 2010, 14:39
Replies: 18
Views: 2,140
Posted By Andrew
Re: Graduation

Nice one Becky!

I felt a little nervous during the ceremony but I wasn't worried as such, just proud. My graduation was the happiest time of my life and if I could, I'd happily go back to those...
Forum: The Lounge 20th July 2010, 13:41
Replies: 27
Views: 2,338
Posted By Andrew
Re: How often are you found listening to music?

Not far off every waking hour I'm not in work... and even when I am at work, I'll try and sneak in a bit of Spotify when there's nobody else around :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th July 2010, 13:33
Replies: 34
Views: 4,251
Posted By Andrew
Working in a job below your capabilities?

Does anyone else find that SA/depression has held their career back and think that without it, they could be working in a job with a higher ranking/status and earning more?

I work as an IT tech...
Forum: The Lounge 20th July 2010, 13:00
Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Posted By Andrew
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)

Yeah but I never see anyone else having that kind of trouble with it, I just have a knack for screwing things up in general!

Do you not have an umbrella or a coat with a hood? I couldn't go...
Forum: The Lounge 20th July 2010, 12:45
Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Posted By Andrew
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)

Pathetic - I've just been stood outside for minutes trying to use my swipe card to get back into work only to be told I was holding it the wrong way. How could I manage that!? I use it several times...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th July 2010, 15:28
Replies: 5
Views: 1,907
Posted By Andrew
Re: I gave up a long time ago

There's been nothing hugely awful that's happened in my life lately but I've still lost virtually all my enthusiasm for it over the last weeks... I feel like I'm just being crushed by life. I have a...
Forum: The Lounge 9th July 2010, 15:17
Replies: 1,669
Views: 92,146
Posted By Andrew
Re: How is everyone feeling? (10)

Genuinely glad it's the weekend so I can get back to my parents' place, switch off and truly relax for once but also wondering where my enthusiasm for life has gone :confused:
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th July 2010, 17:28
Replies: 15
Views: 1,932
Posted By Andrew
Re: The fear of telling stories

I have no stories or 'banter' to speak of either - I can happily listen to other people's stories and (if I'm on good form socially) make contributions through those.

But anything where the focus...
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