Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
18th March 2011, 13:37
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,244
radio4 play on SA
Anybody else hear the radio4 play at 2-15 yesterday . It was the first time I've ever heard a play or any show based on SA. It was quite good.
I hope its replayable online at the BBC website
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
18th March 2011, 13:30
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,068
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd March 2011, 17:01
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,086
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th December 2010, 11:15
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Replies: 71
Views: 9,306
Re: Ever wonder why people don't like you?
The answer is in your question. A few people will dislike like you because they missunderstand your SA. but most people wont like you because they cant get to know you because of SA. Don't mistake...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th December 2010, 10:37
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,846
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
23rd December 2010, 23:05
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,340
Re: What to do about odd relationship
I think thats the key . he is not likely to change for you . he may suit somone but he is not really what matches your needs . I think you should go for somone else.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
6th December 2010, 14:17
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Replies: 45
Views: 7,203
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
3rd December 2010, 16:43
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,985
Re: I don't like you.
Dont waste your time analysing . some will like you and some wont . Your Likeability is a kind of average of everybody . we Saers give far to much thought to the few that we think dont like us . They...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
30th November 2010, 12:20
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,171
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Forum: Room with a View
22nd November 2010, 13:57
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Replies: 4
Views: 2,798
Re: I went to a Dating Master Class Yesterday
Like most other advisors they concentrate on trying to make you more interesting and attractive . I suspect this is because they know what sells!! They know there are many people out there who think...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
22nd November 2010, 10:30
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,746
Re: Read book or surf net?
I think theres a lot of truth in the effect of snobbery on your feelings of guilt . In reality its perfectly possible to educate and "improve" yourself by most types of medium . books, films , tv ,...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
18th November 2010, 13:22
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Replies: 69
Views: 9,855
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
17th November 2010, 08:58
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Replies: 56
Views: 5,715
Re: Just don't get it :/
true.
but tastes vary so much that its extremely rare to find somone that is completely unapealing to anybody.
You Cynic, we have known long enough to know you have talents. Unless you look like...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
15th November 2010, 15:22
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Replies: 56
Views: 5,715
Re: Just don't get it :/
I think it depends on your type of SA .If its based on thinking that others see you in an inferior and/or unattractive way it is incredibly hard to find a partner. If you can get your head round the...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
4th November 2010, 19:45
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Replies: 20
Views: 8,282
Re: How can I stop Blushing??
you cant challenge the blushing if its a fact . but you can challege
1) how visible is it to others?
2) do people think less of a person who is red?
3) do people who joke about it REALLY think it...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
2nd November 2010, 13:32
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Replies: 69
Views: 9,855
Re: Have you received abuse from strangers?
In paranoia its possible to miss translate lip movement ,sounds or speech into negative comments about yourself which were actually harmless sounds or words about somone else . Its also possible to...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
2nd November 2010, 11:20
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Replies: 69
Views: 9,855
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
1st November 2010, 11:16
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,225
Re: Boring
theres a possibility that she really meant it when she said she spoke her mind ! Feelings are not tidy and logical . One minute we can find somone boring ;another time genuinly think theyre...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
26th October 2010, 08:48
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,406
Re: I've got a date`
Youre putting too much into this one date . I know if you dont get many it seems megaimportant . But the secret of success is to realise that its a lottery . You either click or you dont according to...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
25th October 2010, 12:09
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,522
Re: How people see you.
What SA people need to understand is that though maybe 90% of people may not like you that 90% dont dislike you either because SA means they cant really know you.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th October 2010, 20:35
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,124
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
24th October 2010, 12:13
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,024
Re: Why is being very quiet not accepted?
its because employers and work mates are human and therefore just being able to do the job or even be excellent at it is not enough. There is a definite bias towards "sociable people". However its...
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
21st October 2010, 09:16
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Replies: 66
Views: 9,322
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Forum: The Lounge
20th October 2010, 15:28
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Replies: 18
Views: 9,642
Re: How not to buy a new laptop.
For Argos you can look up the catalogue number on line and then you dont have to hang around locating it in the shop catalogue.
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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room
19th October 2010, 10:01
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,853
Re: being invisible
that is part of the problem that you dont see much about in self help books if youre starting from an isolated position . To get out of that vicious circle you have to do a lot of approaching...
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