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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 16th April 2024, 14:10
Replies: 24
Views: 851
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Seeing the GP for Social anxiety

^ Yes, don't add fear of crying to all your other anxieties! Take plenty of tissues! My GP was helpful and I was relieved to be able to talk to someone about the SA. All the best.
Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room 11th April 2024, 17:49
Replies: 3
Views: 465
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: New here - London based

Welcome to the forum!:wave:

I'm not in London, but hope you can meet up with another Londoner here.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 10th April 2024, 18:27
Replies: 18
Views: 661
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Attending best friends wedding

Yes, that's important. And I hope I made it clear I'm not recommending alcohol, just saying what I did.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 10th April 2024, 15:59
Replies: 18
Views: 661
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Attending best friends wedding

I have been in this exact situation a couple of times.

I went to my GP, and was prescribed Diazepam. The first time it worked fine, though the effect did start to wear off a bit after three or...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 4th April 2024, 10:07
Replies: 8
Views: 576
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: What should I do ...set boundaries?

This all sounds a bit confusing, Angela. Do you mean he has never told his wife about dressing up as a woman? It sounds like a potentially difficult situation for you to be in.

Regarding him...
Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room 30th March 2024, 13:31
Replies: 11
Views: 637
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: First time poster, long time sufferer says hi

Welcome! It does help to be with people who are in the same situation, even if that is only virtually. And there are physical meet-ups arranged here too. I hope you find the forum supportive...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 25th March 2024, 15:48
Replies: 9
Views: 637
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Horrible mum

I think Dougella is right that parents often go on treating their adult children the same way they did when they were younger. I don't think it's necessarily malicious, it's usually just their...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 22nd March 2024, 13:06
Replies: 1,760
Views: 256,824
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: The Suicide Thread - Trigger Warning

Just picking up on one thing you say, about blood pressure.

I've had high blood pressure for several months now, I think most likely because of anxiety. Anyway, a single reading apparently is...
Forum: Other Issues and Conditions 14th March 2024, 13:01
Replies: 4
Views: 628
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Recurring dreams

^^ What amazing dreams, they sound quite prophetic. :sad2

I have recurring dreams about being in some dreary office job (like a lot of the ones I had), having to get something done, but with...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th March 2024, 12:46
Replies: 6
Views: 758
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Chanting Om (Aum)

I don't know if any comparison studies have been done on physical effects of chanting Om versus singing, Scurrilous. But as you say, singing is good for us.
...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th March 2024, 11:54
Replies: 6
Views: 758
Posted By Aelwyn
Chanting Om (Aum)

A very detailed study of the effect of chanting Om, you probably won't want to wade through all of it. However the conclusion is that even 5 minutes of this chanting can be good for us and calm us...
Forum: Room with a View 26th February 2024, 12:58
Replies: 652
Views: 201,594
Posted By Aelwyn
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th February 2024, 10:58
Replies: 5
Views: 919
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Struggling

Very sorry to hear you're feeling down at the moment, GI. We all go through these patches, especially when a few difficult things come together (as they often seem to do).

However, knowing...
Forum: Room with a View 10th February 2024, 15:12
Replies: 652
Views: 201,594
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Inspirational quotes/sayings etc

“One must learn to look away from oneself in order to see much: this hardness is necessary to every climber of mountains” (Nietzsche, The Wanderer).

(I haven't read this, just saw the quote...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th January 2024, 15:47
Replies: 6
Views: 559
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Just wanna share with you my experience

Hello and welcome, ppaad! :) I'm very sorry you're feeling so upset.

Your experiences sound very familiar to me. Once the first panic attack happens, we can start to panic about having...
Forum: Room with a View 17th January 2024, 15:41
Replies: 4
Views: 878
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Sponsoring a dog kennel

^ Yes - I support Hillside - they campaign and do a lot to expose abuse of animals. You could adopt one of their animals if you wished. https://www.hillside.org.uk/
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th January 2024, 13:00
Replies: 6
Views: 868
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Social anxiety challenge buddy

I'm not that person either, however I wish you all the best with this.

I think real life friendship/buddying might be more appealing and helpful for people than online, maybe it would help too...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 29th December 2023, 12:06
Replies: 8
Views: 1,691
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: My vlog on how to overcame social anxiety based on experiences that changed my li

Many thanks for all the helpful advice. :)

(PS. How did you make the group of new supportive friends after leaving the unsupportive ones?)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 3rd December 2023, 14:30
Replies: 22
Views: 1,832
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: So is it me or is it these jobs I’m taking?

I don't think it's about what we look like, Boy, it's much more about how we feel about ourselves, and how that is reflected in the whole way we interact with people. A lot of the extrovert,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th November 2023, 17:20
Replies: 22
Views: 1,832
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: So is it me or is it these jobs I’m taking?

This would happen to me a lot. Maybe because with SA we don't settle into a job as quickly as people without it. I think people thought I was aloof,when really I was just anxious and on edge. ...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd November 2023, 11:34
Replies: 9
Views: 1,731
Posted By Aelwyn
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd November 2023, 11:32
Replies: 9
Views: 1,731
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Calming oneself during panic attack

I came across this article recently. I hadn't heard about the vagal nerve exercises before.

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/how-to-stop-palpitations/
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st November 2023, 12:46
Replies: 13
Views: 861
Posted By Aelwyn
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th November 2023, 15:45
Replies: 13
Views: 861
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Assessment Centre with Social Anxiety

Very glad to hear you managed to stay for the whole event, very well done, and as you say it's excellent experience, even if they don't offer you the job. :)
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 17th November 2023, 16:59
Replies: 13
Views: 861
Posted By Aelwyn
Re: Assessment Centre with Social Anxiety

All very good advice above. Just to add to the visualisation bit, you can imagine everyone and everything at the event swaying gently back and forwards all the time - as if you're all under water...
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