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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th July 2018, 11:32
Replies: 7
Views: 1,675
Posted By clyde33
Wobbling legs when walking in a busy street.

My SA has been quite bad recently and yesterday I was in a crowded shopping area walking home and felt like I'd lost control of my legs. I felt like they were going in all directions and wobbly and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th July 2018, 11:28
Replies: 27
Views: 4,737
Posted By clyde33
Re: How do you guys accept you're not liked by many people?

I don't care if people don't like me, it really doesn't bother me. I've never been the type to need friends or depend on people. I've had people in the past who I thought of as friends turn out to...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th July 2018, 11:20
Replies: 11
Views: 2,556
Posted By clyde33
Re: Who else is sick of being told 'you are quiet'

Yup I've had this all my life and it still angers me to this day. I actually once had a cheeky guy ask me if I spoke English because I hadn't said anything ten minutes into a meeting. I felt like...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 25th July 2018, 11:12
Replies: 9
Views: 2,108
Posted By clyde33
Re: Being made the centre of attention

I get this every time I go into the bank and there's a queue. One of the ladies who works there is a bit over-friendly with everyone, and each time I go in she'll shout over to me "how are you...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th June 2018, 19:21
Replies: 20
Views: 3,163
Posted By clyde33
Re: People who feel the need to sit on top of you?

Yup and I've never understood why so many people seem to do this. It's just plain weird. Same with queues; there will be plenty of space yet the person behind will often jam themselves up really...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 27th June 2018, 19:16
Replies: 9
Views: 1,551
Posted By clyde33
Re: University worries :/

I definitely think being able to commute is a good idea. When I went to Uni I struggled with the whole social aspect of it. I had to live in the halls of residence for 4 years and hated it. There...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th June 2018, 11:47
Replies: 6
Views: 1,972
Posted By clyde33
Re: Someone at work blanking me

Jinny I think you've probably hit the nail on the head, ha ha!

Thousandmiles, the only reason that I can think of (and it's a pathetic one at that) is that before I worked there, she was the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th June 2018, 22:21
Replies: 6
Views: 1,972
Posted By clyde33
Re: Someone at work blanking me

[QUOTE=vaxjo;2389024]I find it strange thst people on an SA site complain about being blanked. Maybe their just shy/sicially anxious!!!

Being blanked makes my SA worse as it makes me feel like I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th June 2018, 21:54
Replies: 6
Views: 1,972
Posted By clyde33
Someone at work blanking me

There's a woman who works one day a week where I work. I've noticed that it's always me that says hello to her or initiates a brief conversation. I thought I'd leave it to her to see if she'd speak...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 7th May 2018, 19:51
Replies: 11
Views: 2,088
Posted By clyde33
Re: Do you feel others make friends so easily?

I know, I've wondered about this before too and really don't know the answer.

I haven't made any real friends since school and that was over 20 years ago. I'm still friendly with my school...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th April 2018, 22:19
Replies: 12
Views: 2,077
Posted By clyde33
Re: Coping with people.

I'd also have turned the invite down. I never know what to say to people and I'm very self-conscious. I don't really have much conversation about me and don't do anything exciting that would give...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th April 2018, 19:01
Replies: 3
Views: 1,649
Posted By clyde33
Re: Physicality and SA

At 5' 9" you're not small. I certainly don't think so as my husband is that height and I've never thought of him as small even though I'm just an inch shorter.

Your boss is just a giraffe. :d
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 15th April 2018, 21:54
Replies: 13
Views: 2,082
Posted By clyde33
Re: Scared of using people's names?

Yup I can relate to that but I'm not sure why I've always felt this way. I'm sure I'd come across as being more friendly if I said the person's name, but for some bizarre reason, I really find that...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th April 2018, 20:07
Replies: 5
Views: 1,955
Posted By clyde33
Running a business with Social Anxiety

Popular, confident and loud people seem to get ahead in life more than those with SA or people who are quieter.

I run my own small business and have done for several years. I've spent a lot of...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st April 2018, 21:42
Replies: 10
Views: 1,354
Posted By clyde33
Anxiety about eating in front of someone.

I went out for lunch yesterday with someone who I don't know very well. I ordered a wrap which was full of soft things like humous and avocado and I found myself feeling really awkward about eating...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd March 2018, 23:58
Replies: 7
Views: 1,697
Posted By clyde33
Re: Is it weird to spend so much time on your own?

I don't socialise at all and prefer my own company. I just like being on my own. I don't feel envious if I look on Facebook and see people I know out at parties or whatever; I always feel glad I'm...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd March 2018, 23:42
Replies: 10
Views: 1,558
Posted By clyde33
Re: Who else had an awful time in university because of their SA?

I hated my four years at uni. I had to live in the halls of residence and found it awful; far too many people around me and way too noisy. I dreaded the 'floor parties' most Friday nights where...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 8th March 2018, 11:49
Replies: 5
Views: 1,412
Posted By clyde33
A new hobby but I'll have to mix with people...

I've always fancied playing tennis as I think it would be good exercise and fun at the same time. I noticed my local tennis club was advertising an introductory class this month for beginners, plus...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd January 2018, 14:18
Replies: 20
Views: 2,262
Posted By clyde33
Re: Make friends with people who want the best for you

I have a couple of 'real' friends from school and that's it. They live around 200 miles away so i hardly ever see them.

I gave up trying to make friends several years ago after being treated...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd January 2018, 14:09
Replies: 13
Views: 2,319
Posted By clyde33
Re: Body Odour

Deodorant every morning with a clean shirt or whatever you wear and you should be fine. Sometimes in the summer my work gets boiling and i feel myself sweating so always make sure i've got wet wipes...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 23rd January 2018, 14:07
Replies: 5
Views: 1,401
Posted By clyde33
Re: Making GP appointment

Have you checked to see if your doctors has an online booking system? Mine does and i know lots of them do now. It's really handy as you can pick your appointment, pick who you want to see and you...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 20th January 2018, 13:19
Replies: 7
Views: 1,627
Posted By clyde33
Re: Is this site for me

Welcome to the forum and i hope you find it will help. Social anxiety is different for each person who suffers from it. I'm not sure if there is a difference between being shy and being anxious. I...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd November 2017, 12:06
Replies: 5
Views: 1,911
Posted By clyde33
Re: Feeling awkward due to my accent...

I'm aware of it as i've been asked to "slow down a bit" when i speak, been told by my elderly next door neighbour that she can't understand a word i say, plus mimicked by my husband. :headshake
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd November 2017, 12:02
Replies: 20
Views: 3,658
Posted By clyde33
Re: Did height or weight ever cause you anxiety?

I was teased mercilessly at school for years for being fat and also taller than everyone in my class. My family would even make references to my "fat face" etc when i was very young. It was hell...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 18th November 2017, 22:32
Replies: 5
Views: 1,911
Posted By clyde33
Feeling awkward due to my accent...

I've lived in a city for 25 years that isn't my home town, and my accent (that i've never lost) is very, very different from the locals here. I still get comments about it and asked on a regular...
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