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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st May 2013, 22:31
Replies: 9
Views: 1,360
Re: Do you ever try and make conversation but get closed down

I feel this at work. I feel "locked out" of the conversation (which is almost exclusively about sport). If I bring something up there may be a couple of polite replies but then the conversation is...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th April 2013, 21:17
Replies: 16
Views: 2,334
Re: I think I have aspergers syndrome?

I suspect that I may have AS and I'm currently pursuing a diagnosis. Apparently it's rather hard to get a UK diagnosis as an adult (the condition wasn't recognised when I was a child) and I'm...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th April 2013, 21:09
Replies: 14
Views: 2,866
Emotionally very immature?

Even though I'm middle-aged now I feel that my emotional responses to situations are very much younger than my years, a child's responses in fact.

I don't show these emotions - I pretty much...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th April 2013, 17:41
Replies: 6
Views: 1,472
Do you feel that people expect you to try harder than everyone else?

At work I feel that people exclude me from their conversations and their clique. I even went as far as mentioning this to my line manager who told me "you get out of socialising what you put in".
...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 11th November 2012, 19:39
Replies: 6
Views: 1,311
Re: Becoming more and more isolated at work

Thank you to everyone who replied. I will try to answer some of the points raised.

I've been in this job about six years. The situation has become worse and it is only in the past four months or...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th November 2012, 07:07
Replies: 6
Views: 1,311
Becoming more and more isolated at work

I work in an office in a department of about 8 people and I'm withdrawing increasingly from interacting with them. I work with headphones on listening to podcasts and I don't go to the social...
Forum: Club 30-81 5th September 2012, 06:55
Replies: 14
Views: 3,773
Re: Living with parents

I still live with my mum at age 45. People often find this hilarious or pathetic or creepy (or a combination of the above).

I'm moving more into a carer's role - mum is needing more support and...
Forum: Club 30-81 27th August 2012, 21:29
Replies: 14
Views: 5,720
Re: "Ageism" rant

I get fed up reading some of these articles. I think they're written by people trying to be funny or superior (or both) - they have to sneer at someone and there aren't a lot of acceptable targets...
Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room 27th August 2012, 19:05
Replies: 9
Views: 2,695
Re: Undiagnosed autism in older people

Hi Monica.

I'm 45 and I also believe that I have Aspergers or something similar. I only found out about the condition in the last few years via the Internet and especially from sites like Wrong...
Forum: Club 30-81 30th July 2012, 22:13
Replies: 31
Views: 5,752
Re: Who hates the Olympics?

I hate the Olympics with a passion. I don't know exactly why and I realise I'm probably not being very fair.

I could cite the amount of money being spent or the restrictive security or the...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 10th March 2012, 09:47
Replies: 9
Views: 2,559
I hate being made to play a game I can't win

This is a bit of a rant so please excuse me.

I've been trying very hard to improve my social skills for years - learning to make small talk, to make eye contact, to smile at people and ask about...
Forum: The Lounge 10th March 2012, 09:02
Replies: 2,391
Views: 153,710
Re: Small things that annoy you

The fact that I can't stop my iphone going off twice for every text that comes in. Waiting for the second ringtone is like a kind of water torture.

Televisions and monitors that don't have a...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 5th March 2012, 16:24
Replies: 35
Views: 3,628
Re: What does "Good Sense Of Humour" mean?

I don't think a sense of humour on its own is worth much.

If person A says that person B has a good sense of humour it usually means that person A likes person B, it doesn't necessarily mean...
Forum: The Lounge 5th March 2012, 15:55
Replies: 20
Views: 1,633
Re: who is your fave comic?

Do you mean this Sam and Max?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v323/st0uffer/sammax-full.jpg

In which case I quite agree :)
Forum: The Lounge 5th March 2012, 15:45
Replies: 2,291
Views: 170,491
Re: Rate the last film you watched (3)..

Mary and Max 9/10

I just watched this and thought it would be of special interest to people here. I can't remember anyone mentioning it though - I did a quick search and could only find one...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th February 2012, 11:16
Replies: 68
Views: 5,792
Re: Are you (males) comfortable with your feminine side?

I am a big softy. I'm also quite geeky, which is kind of like a third gender - male but definitely not macho. I am trying to learn to accept this.

Being a softy ISN'T acceptable in my family and...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th February 2012, 10:57
Replies: 15
Views: 2,025
Re: Do you feel jealous when you hear or read of large loving families ?

Yes, I am jealous of this. It must be so comforting to know that there are people you can turn to when you need help, that there are people who love you and understand you.

I'm an only child as...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 16th February 2012, 18:05
Replies: 11
Views: 1,404
Re: Being Raised an Only Child

I grew up an only child. I'm sure it had some effect on how I turned out but it's not the sole cause of my problems. If I had siblings I'm sure I would have learned to deal with day-to-day...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 12th January 2012, 20:17
Replies: 31
Views: 3,807
Re: Uni Graduation ceremony - your experiences?

I didn't go either - partly because of anxiety and partly because my mum (my only family) didn't want to go either.

I hired the robes and had photos taken in them.

I do feel a bit sad about not...
Forum: The Lounge 12th January 2012, 20:12
Replies: 531
Views: 27,127
Re: Overrated things!

I think these are over-rated:

Bill Hicks
Nirvana
Metal Gear Solid
Final Fantasy
any anime I've seen that isn't Studio Ghibli or Akira
Trainspotting (film)
The Catcher in the Rye
Lots of US...
Forum: The Lounge 12th January 2012, 20:03
Replies: 2,391
Views: 153,710
Re: Small things that annoy you

Having to install updates every time I turn my PC or games consoles on.

The fact that it's so hard to get shoes in a size 12. I mean, that's not exactly freakishly large for a man these days is...
Forum: The Lounge 12th January 2012, 10:59
Replies: 2,391
Views: 153,710
Re: Small things that annoy you

This modern method of queuing whereby people stand in a disorganised crowd somewhere vaguely within 20 yards of the shop till/bus-stop fiddling with their phones and chatting. Nothing happens when...
Forum: The Lounge 25th December 2011, 09:44
Replies: 51
Views: 6,069
Re: Merry Christmas, SAUK!

Merry Christmas everybody!

Enjoy it your way, not how the media and the dullards tell you.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd December 2011, 07:24
Replies: 3
Views: 1,018
How do I deal with my boss' temper?

My boss is very moody. When something is going badly for him, whether work-wise or in his home life, he gets very rude and snappy.

He's been bad this week and, with most people already off for...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 22nd December 2011, 06:55
Replies: 9
Views: 1,468
Re: Anxiety + stress= being snappy at others

I can get snappy when I'm stressed and I hate myself for being like that. It happens so quickly that I don't manage to get my brain in gear before I've opened my mouth.

It usually happens when...
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