Forum: Club 30-81
11th October 2014, 11:41
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Replies: 0
Views: 2,135
Developing confidence
Does anyone have any tricks to share?
I've found two hobbies, one sporting and the other artistic, which I've persued for a few years now - they've given me some confidence.
Although I amuse...
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Forum: Club 30-81
10th October 2014, 22:21
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Replies: 2
Views: 2,005
Re: Breaking up is hard to do
Thanks for sharing an interesting perspective CyprusPluto.
woof, I'm happy for you that you got out.
Mine has sought help of the holistic rather than specific alcohol dependency type and I've...
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Forum: Club 30-81
4th October 2014, 17:09
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Replies: 2
Views: 2,005
Breaking up is hard to do
I've been in a relationship for around 5 years and frankly whilst there are still more good days than bad the ratio is literally around 50:50 partly due to her alcohol dependance. I'm not sure I...
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Forum: Club 30-81
25th July 2014, 14:35
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,671
Re: Feeling invisible
I'm glad I don't stand out in a crowd but to spend time in someone's company regularly and then not be recognised - it hurts. Hey ho.
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Forum: Club 30-81
24th July 2014, 14:04
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,671
Feeling invisible
I've been walking up the same hill every couple of weeks (it's a sporting thing) and seeing the same faces at the top for about four years. There are a few cliques and I generally avoid everyone but...
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Forum: Club 30-81
23rd February 2014, 16:20
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Replies: 50
Views: 6,323
Re: What did you do before the internet?
Hi Medea. I was around 20 in '92 when email appeared and by age 25 in '97 I was a frequent internet user.
I had a very sociable and active life before the internet - playing rugby, judo, tennis,...
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Forum: Club 30-81
8th January 2014, 22:21
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,064
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Forum: Club 30-81
1st January 2014, 22:23
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,064
Re: Dancing
Amber, I looked up that clip on You Tube. It is funny. I do like David Mitchell and Charlie Brooker, two of my favourite TV people.
Great to hear I'm not alone Moksha.
T and Tabatha. How does...
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Forum: Club 30-81
22nd December 2013, 09:56
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,064
Re: Dancing
Thanks all for your lovely replies.
Jinny, I am male. Your brother turning to karaoke on his wedding night made me smile. That, to me, seems harder (I've done it once) but guaranteed to win...
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Forum: Club 30-81
20th December 2013, 00:20
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,064
Dancing
Hi everyone,
I've never told anyone this and would like to get it off my chest and ask for advice or sympathy!
I'm in my early 40s and since my teenage years I have been plagued by a fear of...
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Forum: Club 30-81
19th December 2013, 23:40
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,985
Re: Confused and upset by Facebook comment
Friend, for your peace of mind it would be good to ask him directly and privately what he meant by his comment. There could be a whole host of explanations as others have said but you won't know...
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Forum: Club 30-81
5th May 2009, 18:49
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,686
Re: What situation are you not good at?
Dancing.
I remember thinking in my teens that by the time I'm 30 I won't be going to places where dancing goes on so by then it won't matter.
Well now I'm 36 and it still crops up at the worst...
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Forum: Club 30-81
5th May 2009, 18:32
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Replies: 33
Views: 4,794
Re: Do you believe you're beyond help?
I'm 36 and have just found a name for my condition, this website and a book recommended elsewhere on this site which is a self help book based on CBT. So right now I don't believe I'm beyond help.
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Forum: Club 30-81
5th May 2009, 18:09
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,730
Re: Changing how you dress as you get older
I have one particularly critical friend who has repeatedly told me when I am making a fashion faux-pas.
My problem, as pointed out to me, was wearing clothes that were too young for me. Dressing...
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Forum: Welcome & Introductions Room
14th April 2009, 23:29
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,142
hi
Hi all I'm living in the south west, approaching my mid-late-thirties :) and have recently realised that 'Social Anxiety' is what I've had since early days. Some of the stories I've read on this...
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