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Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st May 2013, 22:34
Replies: 3
Views: 1,574
Posted By Fern
We are strong mofos

Been a very long time since I posted on here. Hope you are all relatively okay!?
But I know the answer is probably no Louis, we're not okay, because why would we be okay? Social anxiety disorder is...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 9th August 2011, 18:28
Replies: 5
Views: 1,180
Posted By Fern
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 1st August 2011, 09:00
Replies: 20
Views: 1,989
Posted By Fern
Re: Making friends ... one of the hardest things

Sport would be the best option in my opinion, pal. Iv met so many great lads through it. Now the problem is, I am still 100% socially anxious, so I can't get to know them properly, like they want me...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st July 2011, 19:29
Replies: 3
Fun
Views: 1,115
Posted By Fern
Re: Fun

Oh yes, I can have lot of fun with my nephew... Because he doesn't judge or even know about socializing, being three years old and all that... :laughing:

How lovely it would be to do all of that,...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 31st July 2011, 18:51
Replies: 3
Fun
Views: 1,115
Posted By Fern
Fun

Iv forgotten how to have fun.
I'm so consumed by the way I feel (Horrible) and the paranoid negative self talk, that I just don't know what to say or do to have fun.
Everywhere I look, I see...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 14th July 2011, 09:44
Replies: 0
Views: 1,222
Posted By Fern
Check it out

Iv already read the book, makes a lot of sense to me...

http://anxietynomore.co.uk/blog/
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th July 2011, 19:37
Replies: 3
Views: 1,996
Posted By Fern
Re: Inferiority Complex

I too am a Gemini... How piculiarrrrr
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 4th July 2011, 19:07
Replies: 3
Views: 1,996
Posted By Fern
Inferiority Complex

I feel like Iv been looking in the wrong place with social anxiety.
Yes, I get anxious socially, but I now believe the reason for the anxiety has derived from my Inferiority complex.

Please...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 15:31
Replies: 24
Views: 2,905
Posted By Fern
Re: Bullying

Immediately, it sounds like she was acting out on her own insecurities there, you know?
And its her who is in the wrong, not the new lady that started working for you.
But if, like many SA...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 14:57
Replies: 11
Views: 2,126
Posted By Fern
Re: how embarrassing. caught in the act.

This ^^^ I would find it hilarious, in a good way! I wouldn't worry about it at all pal.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 14:53
Replies: 24
Views: 2,905
Posted By Fern
Re: Bullying

I'm glad to hear that you're more confident in yourself now pal. It shows a lot of progress and is the best form of revenge :dancing_b
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 14:51
Replies: 24
Views: 2,905
Posted By Fern
Re: Bullying

Yeah, sounds like you've indirectly or passively picked up on the negativity and now live by those 'rules'

I just find it so very frustrating that other people who don't deserve an ounce of...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 14:48
Replies: 24
Views: 2,905
Posted By Fern
Re: Bullying

Like what pal?
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 12:58
Replies: 24
Views: 2,905
Posted By Fern
Bullying

Social anxiety focuses on the fear of being evaluated or judged: on the fear of doing something that will be humiliating or embarrassing; and bullies evaluate and judge their victims and openly...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 30th June 2011, 11:06
Replies: 1
Views: 1,549
Posted By Fern
Problems

Football training > Scared. Friends of family staying over > Scared. Nephews birthday party > Scared. Invite to festival > Scared. Attractive girl wants my attention > You guessed it, anxious mess. ...
Forum: Room with a View 8th June 2011, 15:49
Replies: 10
Views: 2,403
Posted By Fern
Re: Unhelpful councellor and other things

What a horrible bitch, I mean what was she thinking???
Forum: Room with a View 8th June 2011, 15:45
Replies: 4
Views: 1,703
Posted By Fern
Re: Ive had 5 better working days than Ive ever had by working on my thinking

Yes, Kammy! Glad it is clicking for you. This is imo the start of overcoming SA, challenging your automatic negative thoughts and beginning to replace them with evidence and in turn, building social...
Forum: Room with a View 2nd June 2011, 19:26
Replies: 33
Views: 10,686
Posted By Fern
Re: Outstanding article on CBT/TEA forms

Could you please write out some examples?
Forum: Room with a View 29th May 2011, 09:55
Replies: 33
Views: 10,686
Posted By Fern
Re: Outstanding article on CBT/TEA forms

Whats been the story and process Herb? Very interested...
Forum: Room with a View 26th May 2011, 10:37
Replies: 1
Views: 1,574
Posted By Fern
Smile Beat anxiety

Well, not fully. But something really interesting happened yesterday.
I had read the night before, that we should accept the anxiety and accept that what ever it is that we fear happening, we can...
Forum: Room with a View 23rd May 2011, 21:09
Replies: 8
Views: 3,434
Posted By Fern
Re: 1st CBT session today

Hey guys thought id update you all on the CBT Iv been receiving. Iv been for a few sessions and we've just gone over what the issues are and where I feel they have come from. I was then asked to keep...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2011, 19:21
Replies: 14
Views: 2,394
Posted By Fern
Re: What do you think caused your SA?

I used to get bullied by groups of people when I was high on drugs.
My parents have always taken the piss out of people behind their backs.
My brother got with my first love and moved her into...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 21st May 2011, 19:09
Replies: 45
Views: 4,523
Posted By Fern
Re: Are you happy or sad?

Today I am really depressed. I am so bored of being in this house, but the fear of sa has taken over my life so I cant go anywhere but my comfort zone. Really finding this hard.
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th May 2011, 18:36
Replies: 19
Views: 2,288
Posted By Fern
Re: What are you scared of?

And yet we let these people ruin our lives... People that mean absolutely nothing to us, but the memories have come to define us. Makes me so angry that they have potentially ruined our lives, but...
Forum: The Social Anxiety Room 19th May 2011, 17:51
Replies: 19
Views: 2,288
Posted By Fern
What are you scared of?

What exactly do you think you are afraid of?
I cant really think of the reason, because I'm anxious in almost ever social situation ....
Yeah I worry about conversation, but I can do that, and...
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