Re: SA loner men - dating normal women and being exposed has not having friends
I guess people tend to stereotype male and female loners in different ways- men might be judged more harshly because people suspect they might be 'up to no good' if they have no friends and might feel a bit threatened by them. On the other hand though people seem to respect a certain kind of male loner who goes off into the woods to do rugged outdoor pursuits (like Ray Mears if he didn't always have a camera crew with him).
On the other hand female loners have it worse because a lot of people expect women to be good at nurturing/communicating/forming relationships so there's the whole 'crazy cat lady' stereotype which is fairly patronizing.
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