lets keep trying guys.
it isn't easy but I will stick with what I said before.
don't be afraid of looking like an idiot if you fail.
millions failed before you and millions will afterwards.
feel bad for a bit, step back, rationalise and then use that experience.
just consider the first time you do anything a trial. nobody cares if you fail it, it is just there for you to see what it is about.
take your falls with grace, roll with the punches, SA will knock you down but in return you have seen how it punches and now are better prepared for the next punch.
I failed, hard, at many things. i still do. non SA people also fail at things.
take the hit by throwing yourself into the situation and then in the second round, use your experience to block some of the punches.
beating SA is lots of little battles, tackle them one at a time you
