[worried mum]

hi Hermann Hesse. thank you for your kind reply and suggestions. When me & his dad discuss it with him he says his meds are helping and he's taking them regularly ( which we don't believe. but short of policing that every day not much we can do there ) thankfully he has a job, strange hours and he's ALWAYS tired. I think a lot of the tiredness comes from depression, he goes to work full time. but works behind the scenes so doesn't get 'seen' which he's happy with. his sleeping pattern is erratic, he's overweight and eats terribly. we encourage him by cooking healthy meals but what he eats in private is beyond us. he does have friends but doesn't see them regularly. thankfully he has us, a loving, supportive mum and dad and 2 older siblings who all care so much about him. I think as a mum I just feel guilty and wish I could do more.