Re: "chatting up" females - my ultimate problem
Wow - Markymark, you've come a hell of a long way, and only on good days with a tail wind do I feel like I'm anywhere near where you are! I am getting better though, and can really relate to the "glass ceiling" of dating - it's bloody hard to break through. Definately don't think the "how to get women into bed" type advice will be helpful, and it doesn't sound like you're the kind of guy to want that. IMHO I think you should work with the female friends you have or make in the future. My biggest regret in life is not being braver and asking out some of the great women I've met and made friends with. And I think they'd be less likely to say no (fear of rejection is probably a big part of your anxiety - it is mine!) and also you know what you are getting. Keep us all posted on how it goes, and I think we should be reading about it in the SA success stories section very soon. :D
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