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Old 7th March 2012, 13:05
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Default Re: Married or in a relationship? You don't have SA

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Originally Posted by Chris P

Are there any guys on here married? If so, do you really have SA? In my experience, shyness is the route cause of my SA. So obviously being married you must of overcome this problem somehow?

SA - shyness = SA free
Maybe you don't have SA, maybe it's love shyness?

For me my SA is an irrational fear, specifically much worse with men or even worse groups of men. Groups of macho men (e.g. a rugby team) I avoid at all costs. I'm much better one to one and better with women and children. I have a profound mistrust of men. I'm not shy though, can even be extroverted once I feel comfortable and trust someone.