Hi all, I'm new to this whole site, I'm 36 and it wasn't until I was 30 that I got my first 'real' boyfriend, (I'd had two before but both had only lasted a few weeks each on account of being dumped twice).

Anyway I'd like to try and give you some hope that just because you reach a certain age and have never had a b/f or g/f doesn't mean you never will!!

I am still with my boyfriend six years later and it's not all roses, sometimes I think it would be so less stress-full if I was single but then I don't want to go back to that awful loneliness, so either way there are good and bad points.