[goku]

i won't paint all women with the same brush, because as generic as it sounds, people are different!
but i think you're probably right, most women probably would prefer that look just like most men would prefer women with a certain look - this is why i don't judge anyone by their looks, because it's something we have no control over!

the amount of times attractive women or men get an undeserved opportunity over someone less attractive is just frustrating for me to see.

looks, height, facial structure is all a genetic lottery. no control over it yet we get judged on it so frequently. not by everyone but by a lot of people.

but one thing you can definitely control bud, and that's your physique! (and character of course!)
you can control and influence those greatly,
if you're unhappy with your body you can change it's composition...massively!

a short guy can look more aesthetically appealing than someone taller if you know what you're doing.
some of the best phyisques to have walked this planet have been circa 5'7