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Originally Posted by here4help
I'm 23 and haven't had a girlfriend before. I am socially awkward around girls I like and if a girl actually does like me I always mess it up and it's too late, she's went off me. I think I'm quite good looking. I have often been considered a selfish person by girls, only caring about myself. I don't think that's true. It's the perception they get. I don't think I ever will have a relationship. Never have, never will. I think the person you are at 23 is the person you will be the rest of your life. Am I right?
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I'm 38 soon and never had a relationship, it used to bother me a lot in my 20s but now I just simply shrug my shoulders and say "so be it". Society I feel applies a lot of pressures on people to have relationships far too young and when they are not ready.
Sometimes I feel being single and free is the way to go for some people, along with loosing and ignoring the stigmatization...