Re: how to beat SA
From my experience - and I have gone from the most awkward science geek to hooking up with the hottest girls in my town - I can say that the road is to take one small step at a time.
Start talking to strangers gradually. Start by asking what time is it. Then, ask for directions. Slowly begin starting conversations. I liked talking to women but was very afraid of it. I slowly began to talk until I could go and approach them directly without any fear. Each little success - a woman smiling at me, kissing me - has made me more confident, until my anxiety was broken.
It was not easy. At the beginning I was physically shaking, but at the end you figure out that it is all in your head, and that the fear is not rational.
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