Re: What's love got to do with it?
Long term relationships can get a bit dull if you don't work at them. It is very easy to take each other for granted and just get into a typical mundane daily script. This does not mean that the relationship is doomed (though you don't say what he lied about - if he was unfaithful or he stole money off you then that is different), it just means that you got to work on it a bit harder. You probably need to get away together and reconnect (not sure how severe your SA is) - can you take a break? Also sometimes it helps if you have something in common, other than that you live in the same house - but shared interests help - is there anything outside the house that you do together or share? I am not an expert, but I have been living with my husband for nearly 10 years too and these things worked for me.
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