[Dougella]

^ Well not really, because this is a forum and people respond to anything that's posted. Two people having an argument would be in private messaging.
Also opinions in the 'general workforce' (a lot of whom have to rely on in work benefits anyway) are often based on myths perpetuated by the media about people on benefits rather than the reality, which is why people feel the need to explain what the actual reality is (or that's why I do anyway).