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Hhaha Toxic, what if you wear a full body latex suit, covering up the head and face...BUT have the legs, hands and back cut out..
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haha see now this is just getting kinky
..all in the name of science... good point though! you can probably show 40% of your flesh off without revealing parts people could find That attractive? hands/arms/back/feet (blah!) id find it hard to find anyone attractive purely by naked hands and a back |
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I'll go out barefoot and in a balaclava tomorrow and wait for the horny gents to fall at my (bare) feet :D
FOR SCIENCE! but not really.. |
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I don't think I'm stunning, but I have attracted some guys before. I haven't lived by some 40% rule either lol.
Confidence plays a part but you have to get out into the world. It isn't by chance that the periods where I was most socially active were where I was getting attention. |
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Wow, is this the longest thread i've started ?
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hmm
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Nope because I'm overweight and people are shallow.
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Just because it's 40% doesn't mean you can get away with wearing a hessian sack with the arse cheeks cut out!! Common sense people!
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^ Have you ever seen someone wearing a hessian sack with the arse cheeks cut out? I have and she had every man eating out of the palm of her hand.
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This post. I endorse it. P.S. Do you still post on the SAS forums joinmartin? Or has this become your new favourite haunt |
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^I agree with you.
I also agreed with Cynic's alteration cos i thought saying men are shallow was a bit out of order and better if Sigh used something like people are shallow (rather than single out men only) but then even that i disagree with. |
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I actually think I'm okay looking, I just don't ever see myself getting a girlfriend because of my anxiety issues. And I just think women would rather go out with someone outgoing and successful. I'm none of those things, never will be.
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My ex was very outgoing and confident, the polar opposite to me, and successful. He was patient up to a point but my SA eventually lead to so many arguments. I can understand your low self confidence , as I sort of feel the same about myself. I just try to remember that I am my own worst enemy, and that nobody thinks as badly of me as I do. |
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Speaking from my own experience, I'm not particularly successful or outgoing but my confidence in particular with women has improved a lot in recent years and so has my success. I don't think that's a coincidence. |
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All this talk of being shallow got me thinking. Aren't we all "shallow"?
I mean, if you are going date someone, or be in a sexual relationship with a person you have to be attracted to them surely? You wouldn't want to have sex with someone you found to be unattractive. Whether you go for typically attractive people or not? My boyfriend isn't your typical "attractive" male, he isn't 6 foot tall with a six pack and a chiseled jaw, but to me he's gorgeous. I don't find "manly men" hot. So I wouldn't go out with one, based on how they look...does that make me shallow in a way? |
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As I think I've managed the first part of that, but the second still doesn't exist and as a result still feel quite invisible in that regard (doesn't help that most I know of are either in a relationship or lesbian). Think part of my problem is hard to find the non outgoing women as they not out there in the first place, as that's what would probably fit me best being similar myself. Don't think its as simple as that though as not like I ever get any interest. |
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Are preferences shallow though? |
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I don't consider myself to be particularly attractive and I can't imagine myself as being sexually desirable either.
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When we dismiss someone who is only interested in a partner's looks as 'shallow', we do so because a person's outward appearance is trivial, ephemeral and superficial. They are thus concerned only with things that are immediately obvious with no deeper meaning. Same with considerations like social status and wealth. It is considered less shallow to be concerned with a partner's personality because this is a more important aspect of who they are as a person, and represents a deeper interest in that person's essential self. |
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oh its okay if your not attractive
aslong as you have some confidence! oh shit, got neither at least confidence has the advantage of being improved! looks your generally stuck with what youve got i can only talk to women "easily" if i treat them like guys pretty much...(that doesnt mean im going to mess about and wrestle them to the ground or crap like that, too energetic im not 14 anymore..) ..but just in how i talk to them...if they are in a relationship...or married or whatever yeah they are not too hard to talk to (well no more so than guys) but single women whether i find attractive or not i just fall apart and start mumbling at the ground, god knows why |
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I've been around "attractive" people who I've slowly grown to see are not very nice and you no longer see them as attractive the same thing in reverse, if you go out with someone just on looks your going to be dissapointed but most of the time people do not and the internet almost goes the opposite way and people meet up based on personality or interests rather then looks. Everyone has prejudice's its how you act on them that makes you shallow or not. |