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  #4801  
Old 9th June 2018, 23:40
Pink*Lady Pink*Lady is offline
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It is a lovely group biscuits. There were only 6 people so it was nice and small and most people were calm and quiet - perfect!
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Old 11th June 2018, 01:31
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Thanks pinklady and Biscuit

Pinklady that gardening group sounds lovely and I'm really glad you met some people and enjoyed it, well done
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Old 11th June 2018, 16:17
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^ Nicely done, dimples!

^^ Pink*lady, that gardening group sounds really nice. I could do with doing something like that.
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Old 12th June 2018, 17:13
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I had a successful job interview today. I won't know for a while whether I got the job or not, but for the first time in my 36 years, I left an interview room feeling like I hadn't let myself down, sold myself short or shat my pants. There was a written assessment beforehand and the interviewer told me I got the highest score (100% - which he said was an extremely rare occurrence). I think this may have put a spring in my step, thus eradicating my nervousness somewhat.

After the interview, there was an occupational medical exam. This was less successful. I was honest about my use of antidepressants, which means that they have to contact my GP and decide whether me being a fucking MenTaL LOL poses any kind of risk (the job involves driving buses, so I would have the safety of up to 90 people in my hands). Also, they did an informal eye-test, which I failed quite badly, so now I have to go to SpecSavers and, if necessary, get glasses.
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Old 12th June 2018, 22:24
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Thanks pinklady and Biscuit

Pinklady that gardening group sounds lovely and I'm really glad you met some people and enjoyed it, well done
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^ Nicely done, dimples!

^^ Pink*lady, that gardening group sounds really nice. I could do with doing something like that.
Thanks Dimplesxo and Appear.

Have you had a look to see whether there are any gardening groups in your area Appear? A friend of mine started the gardening group within a mental health support group on Meetup.
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Old 13th June 2018, 11:59
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I'd like to do something like that too, I find being around other people much easier outside, doing something physical.
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Old 20th June 2018, 04:05
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I spent a happy hour ironing, which I enjoy;
discarded half a dozen items from the bathroom cabinet - out of date items and things I'll never use;
discarded a couple of worn-out towels to donate to the RSPCA;
had a ten-minute walk.
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Old 20th June 2018, 12:12
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So far I'm getting through my working day without experiencing intense homicidal urges
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Old 22nd June 2018, 14:57
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It's great to read that so many of you have had achievements whilst I've been away; I do love reading this thread and reading about everyone's progress. Spinal, it's always good to avoid homicidal urges, so congratulations.

I had a tiny achievement of my own during my recent holiday. Last Thursday (14th), I had an accident which left me with a black eye, a heavily-grazed and bruised face and a deep gash over my right eye; it happened just a few minutes before I was due to join a boatload of people on a whale-watching trip, but despite looking hideous (or, I should say, even more hideous than usual), I managed - after having cleaned up the cut and applied a plaster as a temporary measure until I could get to a hospital - to join the trip without feeling overly self-conscious. Even after I got the cut glued, the black eye, swelling, bruising and grazes were somewhat noticeable but I didn't let it hinder my enjoyment of the remaining days of my holiday.

Although I wasn't seriously hurt, the accident was a near-death experience: it's only my thick skull, pure luck and/or an inch either way which prevented me from being killed / knocked unconscious / losing an eye, so it's also a reminder that none of knows what time we have left and that we should do all we can to live now.
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Old 24th June 2018, 16:58
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I went to a new gym which is something I’ve been putting off since I moved up here. Didn’t lift heavy or stay long because I’d like to be able to move my arms next week and the football was starting but I will be back there.
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Old 25th June 2018, 09:37
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well done I should go to the gym/swimming today. I've no excuse but I've not been for a while as I've been feeling really run down & now I've lost my nerve.
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Old 29th June 2018, 16:42
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Our boss and union rep came in today and briefed us on some things and I asked a question in front of everyone
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Old 29th June 2018, 19:41
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^ Well done, that's great.
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Old 3rd July 2018, 22:34
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Signed up to a gym and plan to also have a personal trainer to look better and be stronger.
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Old 3rd July 2018, 23:51
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^ Go you! I need to do something like that
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Old 4th July 2018, 08:26
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Being seen as a boring loner, once as always at work, and having a fit 50 year old man who can do more pushups than me pushed me to do it.
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Old 12th July 2018, 12:12
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i just booked my theory test. any tips?
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Old 12th July 2018, 20:18
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i just booked my theory test. any tips?
Just read the book or get an app to learn it. From what I remember most of the questions have two obvious wrong answers anyway and you can get some very similar questions in the test as well.

I got 34/35 in the car theory and 92/100 in the HGV theory.
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Old 13th July 2018, 11:23
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Just read the book or get an app to learn it. From what I remember most of the questions have two obvious wrong answers anyway and you can get some very similar questions in the test as well.

I got 34/35 in the car theory and 92/100 in the HGV theory.

wow that was a great score. yes i have the book & a good app. im going to go into it like a practice run i think & if i pass bonus. im worrying about putting my stuff in a locker situation & being next to people. do you have your own shielded area?
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Old 13th July 2018, 11:28
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^ where I did mine you have a kind of desk with partitions on each side so you can't see the people left or right of you. This was ages ago though.
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Old 13th July 2018, 14:21
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Both places I did my theory they ask you to prove your mobile is switched off (if you have it on you), and put all your stuff in a tray before you put it in the locker.

It's just like AL says, partitioned desk. Take your time, you can chose to do practice questions first
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Old 13th July 2018, 18:09
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^^ & ^ thankyou
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Old 13th July 2018, 23:49
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I made the bed;
had a cooked breakfast & washed the dishes after;
did laundry and pegged it outside to dry;
vacuumed the house;
reconciled bank statement & cheque book.
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Old 14th July 2018, 09:08
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^ a productive day there, well done Galatea
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Old 14th July 2018, 10:48
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^ Thank you! they're rare, I hope I don't fizzle out subsequently!
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Old 15th July 2018, 20:05
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Today I swapped essentials from old handbag and wallet to new smaller ones, and relocated or discarded some unnecessary items I'd been carrying around.
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Old Yesterday, 18:06
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I got a second hand compliment today and rolled with it quite well - someone i deliver to, her daughter had said to her the previous time i had been there that i was the 'dishy delivery guy'!

It felt good, i didn't feel panicked at all and it was genuinely nice to have a regular reaction (amusement).
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Old Yesterday, 18:32
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^ You should upload a photo so we can see the dishy driver
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Old Yesterday, 18:35
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I haven't changed since the last time you saw me
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Old Yesterday, 18:39
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^ I've been to sleep since then.
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