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Old 28th October 2009, 21:56
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why you so quiet ?
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Old 28th October 2009, 23:59
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How about, "snap out of it" guaranteed to send anyone with a touch of SA running for more cover.
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Old 29th October 2009, 18:41
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i hate also 'do u hav a boyfriend?'
me: NO
them: why not??
That is a pretty daft question to ask anyone! It's entirely possible to be happily single. Coupledom is not compulsory.

I had a workmate who used to ask stupid questions like that, such as "Why are you wearing different trousers today?" or "You don't even have any piercings or tattoos do you?" :rolleyes:
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Old 29th October 2009, 19:25
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"Hello"
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Old 29th October 2009, 21:48
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i hate also 'do u hav a boyfriend?'
me: NO
them: why not??
what r u supposed to say?? im so tempted to do a bridget jones n say 'well it doesn't help i have scales under my clothes'. i feel like saying why does an insensitive idiot like u have one? i guess there is hope yet......... (i wld not say it tho as it just looks like im bitter!)
..They shoot single people don't they? for beinf SOOOO inadequate LOL
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Old 30th October 2009, 00:16
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"Hello"
HAHAHAHAHA!!
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Old 30th October 2009, 20:40
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I see I'm not the only one that gets the 'keep the noise down' remark

I absolutely hate that one and for some reason makes my blood boil
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Old 31st October 2009, 03:42
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..They shoot single people don't they? for beinf SOOOO inadequate LOL

yes it is a silly question and not really one u can answer is a short neat little package. for eg- if u say 'i have not found the right person' you u can sound picky or unlucky in love. and then let ur self in for a big lecture on how u need to be less picky or ur too close minded. or if u say i don't get out much/ im not up for dating atm which is what im like 99% of the time....u may sound pathetic or a bit of a sad sack.

its sort of like asking why is the sky blue? i don't kno it just is.....meh. next question please
(altho technically ive heard its not blue apparently its just the light reflecting off the ocean ha ha)......
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Old 31st October 2009, 11:14
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"Oh i never saw you sitting there!"...what am i some fecking leprechaun or something?!?...i had this the other day while in the pub,i thought thanks for bringing all that lovely attention
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Old 31st October 2009, 12:12
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''excuse me hen....''

I'm not a she!!!!!!
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Old 31st October 2009, 12:35
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"No offence but..........."

If you don't mean any offence then don't say it
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Old 31st October 2009, 14:00
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Mate: "Would you like to come to Birmingham with me on Sunday (tomorrow) to look at a VW camper van I fancy buying?"

Me: "Erm...........OK then."


Eeek!
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Old 31st October 2009, 14:35
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Remember when I was in college years ago and the tutor intends to "get you all interacting in groups". I just wanted the floor to swallow me up.
Yeah, and another one is; "I'm going go around the room and I want you to introduce yourselves to the group and say a bit about yourselves."

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Old 31st October 2009, 19:38
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Yeah, and another one is; "I'm going go around the room and I want you to introduce yourselves to the group and say a bit about yourselves."

possibly the worst thing ever!
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Old 7th November 2009, 12:17
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''....and the only person in this class NOT to comment on this in class descussion was Simon, I think we should hear your view''

Year 9 secondary school, in class debate. Awful.

LOL! yes I think that is the ultimate quote of what you shouldn't say to anyone with sa...
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