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Great idea as there is lack of help out there for the housebound. I wouldn't mind being a voluntary buddy in my local area.
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I certainly think a specific Social anxiety/phobia charity is an outstanding idea. It surprises me that there is not one already, now I come to think about it. While internet resources such as this one are valuable, a dedicated charity designed to promote this condition (which you rightly say BM that the medical profession is almost totally ignorant of) and provide information to people is an idea whose time has come. I would be prepared to help out in anyway and being associated with SA no longer bothers me.
The befriending part is more problematic for the reasons others have stated. |
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Isnt that what social workers are for? to help people in the community with mental health issues and to liase with the gp.
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But to be honest I am confused as to what social skills really means, and what sort of things you would want to learn? Any ideas? Are we talking about simple things like how to have a conversation? Or something more fundamental? Quote:
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I think it's better to join forces with Anxiety UK on all the issues discussed, since they got the whole registered, award-winning charity thang going on. I need to have a bit more of a think. Perhaps some of us who are interested in helping could meet up...I'll get in touch with Stefano as well. |
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hi your based in Bristol arn't you? perhaps this would interest you.
Role Ref: BT2088 Role Title: Befriender Role Location: Second Step (Link Up) - Bristol & Surrounds Role Hours: Flexible (min 3 hours per week) ROLE DESCRIPTION: We are recruiting people with lived experience of mental health issues who feel that they are at a point in their recovery that they can provide peer support to somebody with mental health issues. We offer training support and supervision to all volunteers. The volunteer will take part in two stages. The first is the peer support stage; volunteers are matched for three months to provide peer support in pairs. The second stage is befriending where volunteers are matched with Second Step service users to provide befriending support for 6 months. |
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^Did you mean me Bennite? I'm in London.
I like volunteering but am too busy with other volunteering duties to do anything else right now. I suppose because befriending service is already around other people have obviously ironed out any associated problems. |
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As I've said before with any of my meets you are welcome to come along and just be a fly on the wall and not say a word. But yes I do see what you mean about social skills, if you haven't learnt them the normal way through interaction and practice and generally messing around with friends throughout your childhood then it has to be learnt. I didn't have any friends growing up so I was in the same situation. How to teach basic social skills is a bit of an odd one thought, you're right it's hard to think how we could help others. The problem is also that there are very few 'rules' and teaching someone how to behave is just wrong, as it may go against their personality. Argh this is difficult!! |
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I do think social skills can be learned too..... I've read things that give you the basics of how conversation works, how to make small talk, ask the other person questions to show an interest in them, tell stories that are related to the discussion, etc. Personally I feel that I do have those skills, for me it's just about feeling relaxed enough around people to be able to do it...... maybe you;d be better at it if you could expose yourself to the situation enough that your anxiety was reduced? Or do you think the lack of taking part would maintain your anxiety? |
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For some it's just a case of getting rid of the anxiety, for others, it's a case of having to learn from scratch which is what I did. Anyway, I have lots more to say on this topic, will get back to it when I have more time. |
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Hi Bm,
For what it's worth, I think this is a great idea. I've had a volunteer come weekly, not through a mental health charity, but through a parenting charity. It was only coincindental that she had sufferred sa when she was younger, but having her to chat to, & just to take an interest in my welfare has done me the world of good. I suppose it is what other people get from their friends or from parents, but if you don't have any support in that respect, then a volunteer can be invaluable. I think existing mental health charities are a good place to start. |
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When im better (!) I would love to be able to help someone. Although i suffer more from agoraphobia, so i guess it would be better for me to be a buddy to another agoraphobic person, but then there is crossover.....
Am reseraching on the Net now, if i was in bristol i would go for the above mentioned volenteering position! |