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unmotivated and full of apathy
I don't think I am suffering from depression as I don't feel low at all.
But I have no motivation to do...well...anything. I can do my job with my eyes closed and have no long term goals or the desire to set any. Even things I used to enjoy I now find a chore. All I want to do is isolate myself at home and be left alone. Its very frustrating and its wearing my mood down |
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
Sounds like depression to me. It's exactly how I experience it, anyway. I hope you come out of the slump soon.
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
I am there. I think its similar to looking up at Mount Everest from ground level and knowing you must climb to the top but you feel you do not have the energy, ability or willpower to do so.... so you don't bother and get pissed off. Then you turn around, chill out for a while and then go to sleep. When you wake up in the morning there it is again waiting for you to climb up!! NOOOO I can't possibly do that, turn around instead, chill out, maybe I can do it tomorrow... go to bed... wake up...... meh
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
thanks for the replies people
I have actually solved my problem. its two-fold. 1. I had a life changing event planned which fell through and since then have had no plans. I need a long term goal to look forward to 2. I need to be needed. I get a kick out of helping people with their problems. Theres been a huge lull of that recently lol |
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
Helping people is good, but if you're doing it because you need to be needed, you are setting yourself up to fail. You shouldn't do things to receive gratitude to boost your own self-esteem, because then you're reliant on the other person providing that gratitude. You will be the needy one and needy people don't cope well when their needs aren't met.
Example: Gavin helps Bob do the shopping because Bob broke his hip. Gavin feels good about himself because Bob needs him. Bob's hip gets better and he can do his own shopping. Gavin feels betrayed and abandoned because he's no longer needed. So the key is to help people when they need it, and not because you need it. |
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
true enough pal and I do help people because they need it, the side of this is that it makes me feel good about myself.
my friend said I am like a mother, if nothing is wrong, then I am a bit lost. Anyway the slump has mimimised. three days off after today (badly needed) and payday on Friday. |
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I felt really lost without a long term goal too, luckily I had the idea of saving to buy a house, then starting a business from home, probably something vegan related and an animal charity or sanctuary. I'm not sure of the details yet, but good to have something to work towards, otherwise I feel like a floater |
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Re: unmotivated and full of apathy
So Bob Holness had his legs broken by Gavin?
I am so confused, does Bob like cheese? |