Take it or leave it

That's going to be my attitude from now on towards relationships (or lack of).
I read that I should do this, act a certain way, lose weight, work out, play this 'game', all that junk, but it's not me, I don't want to be a fake, i'm sick of people telling me I should change to attract women. I want to be myself.

So take it or leave it girls

[ShyDoll]

Good on ya mate. Much respect!

[Pal]

Originally Posted by nothing_to_say

That's going to be my attitude from now on towards relationships (or lack of).
I read that I should do this, act a certain way, lose weight, work out, play this 'game', all that junk, but it's not me, I don't want to be a fake, i'm sick of people telling me I should change to attract women. I want to be myself.

So take it or leave it girls

Nowt wrong with that. Although nothing says you have to fake change if you really want to change.

I guess I mean changing my attitudes, my appearance, weight, going to places that I don't like, or forcing myself to talk about stuff i've no interest in.
That sort of thing. Someone even suggested that I go to the gym Yeah right, nothing could appeal less.

[Pal]

Originally Posted by nothing_to_say

I guess I mean changing my attitudes, my appearance, weight, going to places that I don't like, or forcing myself to talk about stuff i've no interest in.
That sort of thing. Someone even suggested that I go to the gym Yeah right, nothing could appeal less.

I don't you nessesserily have to do all that to meet new people. I think what's generally agreed is that it's about changes to your confidence, self esteem, outlook on life etc.

Indeedy My outlook & attitudes are ok. If I can just get a job, I believe i'll be ok.
If people don't like me, sod em.