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How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
Really deep question but someone at work asked me this today. I would like to say six months to a year (if it was serious) but it depends on the person.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
I used to think it would be a long time. But now it would probably be a few days maybe, no girl is worth feeling like that. Don't get too close and you can't get hurt, simples. My personal view anyway.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
It took me about 6 months to fully get over the only girlfriend i've ever had. For many reasons I won't be going into a relationship of my own accord again.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
I'm 10 months out of a 4 year RS, i still get twinges in the heart every now and then, with any luck by a year i wont care... i agree with detox though, in the future i dont think itll take this long as she was my first i am not accustomed to it and went through the whole "i wont find anyone else sage"(which atm is proving true though lol) but in the future ill know what to expect.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
As a rule of thumb it seems to take me three times as long as the time I had feelings for the other person. I was dating my first boyfriend for 1.5 years and it took me about 5 years to get over him. Someone else I was seeing for 6 months took me 1.5 years. Had a crush on someone for 3 months, took me 9. Needless to say I've become more and more terrified of developping feelings for someone now. Really should've learned my lesson but didn't and now I'm probably done for.
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As for the OP,goodness knows. It`d be like someone asking "how long is a piece of string?". |
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
was with my ex for about 6 years
took nearly a year i guess to not really give a toss about her i develop feelings way too easy! but ive started to change and try not to let it bother me so much..if anyones daft enough to get with me again anyway im sure i wont be as bothered..but she was my first "serious" one i guess |
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
A little over 3 minutes?
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
For me, it's approximately 3-6 months for every year of the relationship. But the heartbreak process often begins aaages before the relationship has actually ended, so knock a bit off for that. Also, it depends how in love you were, and how well you bounce back from adversity generally.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
think it also depends on a lot other factors, but I can't really answer the question properly, took me about as long as the 'relationship' was (a year) but back then my days were just spent rotting away too, think I can deal with crap and get on with things quicker than then, both through being mentally tougher and just having a more busy 'life'.
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Coming up to seven months and I'm still not quite there.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
^ Sums up how I feel atm.
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
I can't say i've ever been left heartbroken by an ex so I wouldn't know but I always wait at least 6 months before dating again just as a sign of respect.
However, I have had my heart shattered by a certain family member two years ago and that wound is still seeping now as fresh as that day. I don't want to go into what it was but I don't think i'll ever forgive them or talk to them again. I think if I ever do fall in love and they seriously bruise my heart, I highly doubt i'd ever move on at least not deep down but who knows. |
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Re: How Long Does it Take to Get Over a Broken Heart?
The best advice is to get back out there so you don't fall into the trap of idealising someone who just doesn't want you anymore.[/QUOTE]
I think you are right and believe me that person is not perfect. My first serious boyfriend took years to get over and I am sort of over my next one after 1 and a half years. It doesn't help that I get very depressed but I tell myself (and others in the same position) that it is the depression not because I am still upset. Cake, a bottle of ale and a good film normally help too x |
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