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I also find discussing personal stuff awkward. Do you find that it is easier to discuss someone else rather than your own personal things? I tend to get asked about what my sister is doing, her work etc when the person asking doesn't even know her....maybe they do that because they just haven't got a clue what to say to me? I really hate awkward silences, I don't know whether the other person realises, but I never know where to look and start fidgeting. I think it is so obvious when I'm worrying about what to say, part of me feels like saying to the other person if they are getting bored then I don't mind if they want to leave...I sometimes feel like people only join me because they feel like they have to. |
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I have to agree it's definitely easier to talk about others ( probably because they have stuff going on in their life's which u can talk about but when it comes to talking about yourself there's nothing to discuss because of lack of friends, socialising and hobbies etc) Awkward silences are the worst especially when you want to go but are to scared to say your going to go now. Does your sister have social anxiety ? |
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Had lots of awkward silences this week - partly created them myself though as not really been in the mood for speaking. Even when I do speak though even the day after the conversation I can end up feeling mega anxious about what I actually said and whether the person thinks I am weird and what they think about what I said - do you feel like that too? |