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View Poll Results: is it possible to define a "League" ? | |||
Heterosexual Man - Yes | 34 | 38.64% | |
Heterosexual Man - No | 15 | 17.05% | |
Heterosexual Woman - Yes | 18 | 20.45% | |
Heterosexual Woman - No | 6 | 6.82% | |
Gay man - Yes | 4 | 4.55% | |
Gay man - No | 1 | 1.14% | |
Lesbian woman - Yes | 0 | 0% | |
Lesbian woman - No | 0 | 0% | |
Bisexual man - Yes | 0 | 0% | |
Bisexual man - No | 1 | 1.14% | |
Bisexual woman - Yes | 1 | 1.14% | |
Bisexual woman - No | 1 | 1.14% | |
Transgender - Yes | 1 | 1.14% | |
Transgender - No | 2 | 2.27% | |
Asexual - no answer applies | 2 | 2.27% | |
Other (specify) | 2 | 2.27% | |
Voters: 88. You may not vote on this poll |
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I think the idea of 'leagues' is pure bullshit.
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If you believe in leagues, then you are putting pointless barriers up. If there were such a thing, how on earth did I manage to get boyfriends when I'd never worn a skirt or pair of high heels in my life (so poo-poo to your girly girly generalisation Cynic) ... it's called confidence and self-esteem, believing in yourself and being proud of yourself. |
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Hmm this is such a tough question..just dont know what to think anymore really. Maybe that's down to lack of living, experience.
Looks wise..i think it's a lot harder to say someone is out of your/my league. But for me..persoanlity..i sometimes feel really inferior. I cant believe how little i know though. I mean i do have interests..but i dont really have any depth of knowledge...that's not my fault..it's just the way i am. I want to do things in life..it's just that i havent done anything yet..which makes my persoanlity come across as awkward sometimes. As attraction is an all round package..well i suppose i do feel inferior to others sometimes. But those others who i may feel inferior to..have to be on the same level looks wise as myself or better looking (in my eyes) Weird ? yeah maybe. But..it's soo complicated..because you never really are sure how you match against others (opposite sex) initial looks wise. Then personality comes into it..which just makes it even more complicated. I think if you have good charm and you're at least a little intersting..or 'willing'..then anything is possible. I wouldn't say everybody can possibly match up 'looks wise' (imo)..though i do think quite a bit is possible to break down that intial looks barrier..and be drawn in by other areas. |
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A league implies that there is an objective definition of beauty and attractiveness.
There isn't. Cynic can huff and puff all he wants about men wanting girly girls and girls wanting manly men, but with all due respect, his cynical views are just too extreme and overly-generalised to be accurate. |
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I actually agree with cavegirl *shock/horror
as for girly girls/manly men ... as long as the girl doesn't come accross overly masculine like butch and the guy doesn't come accross as camp i don't think it will put of the masses |
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^ Yeah agree with her too but I don't think it's just physical. It's stupid to think that Notting Hill could happen in real life, it's very very unlikely. That films defines someone who gets with someone who is way out of their league. In reality it happens hardly at all if ever. Someone like Salmon Rushdie is never going to date an uneducated chav even one as gorgeous as say Cheryl Cole.
But like CaveGirl said people who are obsessed with leagues are probably more than likely narrowing down their options far too much. |
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This man, the exception to leagues and standards. |
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Its a common thing that guys are expected to like women who look like that, and like big boobs and things... personally I hate big knockers. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. Everyone has different 'tastes'. |
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hugh hefner has like millions or billions of dollars. that is not a good example because the average man can't relate. |
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Oh yeah and he's a 'sweetie'. He does have an inescapable charm. Charisma and money goes a long way. Plus he runs a little magazine which makes or breaks these young ladies careers. He's not an exception he proves the rule. Quote:
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this doesn't necessarily reflect my personal views, but a lot of people rant about the coupling of beautiful, dead heart-throb kurt cobain, with courtney love. i'm not much of a fan of hers, but i would stop well short of calling anyone ugly. glass houses and so on |
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oh - and i think there was mass hatred re the looks of a certain mrs john lennon, but i personally don't see what the problem was seems more like a form of racism than anything else :rolleyes:
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Put it like this Courtney Love or Susan Boyle? |
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Major pressure on women to be thin and beautiful these days. |
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anyway,as i said...i don't find anything wrong with how she looks. just says a lot about all the xenophobia in those days as for lennon, its odd. is he really not handsome, is it all just a part of the legend? difficult to say. i suppose we could certainly say that looks or no, he was certainly attractive to a lot of people. |
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i don't consider this sort of thing very gentlemanly, but in all seriousness, susan boyle! i must apologise, i think i'm perhaps prejudiced against druggy trampy sellouts |
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worst i've seen is a white dude in his mid 50's with a borderline jailbait asian girl but i'll give him the benefit of the doubt and assume she was 16 |
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because of where i've lived, i've never been surrounded by a very diverse ethnic background, its interesting to hear about this from "someone i know" the media certainly seems to know what it likes :rolleyes: i always had the idea tho that what people are like on a person to person basis is very different from the fascist tunnel vision exhibited by the media. |