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Old 13th July 2018, 21:43
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Old 14th July 2018, 11:31
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^^ sorry to hear that Toxic x
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Old 14th July 2018, 12:09
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I don't know why I can't just enjoy myself without a whole load of negative thoughts and feelings taking over. There's not even any basis for them.
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Old 29th July 2018, 16:17
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F***** right off, no one reason just a mixture of things.
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Old 29th July 2018, 18:43
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Bored and also, frustrated. The number of days that will pass until I am able to achieve any of the small, teeny tiny little things I want to seems to be growing exponentially. Instead I sit and stare through a window, something that might otherwise give me some pleasure is now a painful torture that I have no escape from.
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Old 10th August 2018, 19:53
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Pretty shit. For various reasons. Meh.
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Old 12th August 2018, 09:50
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I had myself a long overdue blow out this weekend

It seems I've reached an age where i now get hangovers

Thats not been fun...I was hangover free in my 20s

I'm finally not feeling like I'm dying but christ
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Old 12th August 2018, 11:23
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This is one of the reasons why I don't really drink much anymore. In my 20's I rarely got a hangover, now all I need is a few glasses of wine to feel like crap the nxt morning!
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Old 12th August 2018, 14:55
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^ I went out on Friday night and I was still rough on Saturday night

I actually thought there must be something else wrong with me because alcohol has never really done anything to me. Dont know if its a combination of losing a load of weight or not drinking pretty much all year...but good grief I'm not doing that again.

It's like I've just experienced my first little hangover, it genuinely is enough to put me off drinking
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Old 12th August 2018, 19:02
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Not great, I've managed to put my back out and I can't even stand up straight at the moment and this isn't long after getting over a knackered knee.


I seem to be going downhill rapidly after turning 40 earlier this year .
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Old 12th August 2018, 21:25
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^ Just wait till you turn 50! Everything goes downhill at twice the speed.
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Old 15th August 2018, 06:03
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I'm so disgusting. I have put on so much weight lately, now I don't want to be seen in public. The shame of it.
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Old 15th August 2018, 09:57
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^ Putting on weight doesn’t make you disgusting

That said, I do really empathise with you Al, because I feel the same way about myself at the moment
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Old 26th August 2018, 16:21
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Really low, been trying to shake it off but its like trying to get a monkey off my back.
Depressions a monkey not a black dog!
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Old 26th August 2018, 21:01
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Seriously low. Went to my cousins wedding this weekend. Had too much to drink at her party, had to leave early as cld hardly walk.. really out of it. Then the whole weekend i could hardly say a word to anyone cos im so socially awkward. All my relatives treat me like a 5 yr old cos i have mental health issues. Wwll i do act pathetic
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Old 28th August 2018, 23:35
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Seriously low. Went to my cousins wedding this weekend. Had too much to drink at her party, had to leave early as cld hardly walk.. really out of it. Then the whole weekend i could hardly say a word to anyone cos im so socially awkward. All my relatives treat me like a 5 yr old cos i have mental health issues. Wwll i do act pathetic
not pathetic, what I do when I dont wont to face a situation, get total rat-arsed.
of course helps that im a happy drunk.
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Old 3rd September 2018, 01:28
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I don't want to see the bl**dy parents at school tomorrow. They're so snob and stand-offish.
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Old 3rd September 2018, 01:31
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Actually not tomorrow. Today, in 7 hours !
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Old 3rd September 2018, 02:05
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^ You have my sympathy Speakfriend I used to HATE the school run because of the parents - an SA nightmare

Mine starts back on Wednesday. But at 15, I’m no longer allowed within a mile of the school gates which suits me just fine
I feel so heavy hearted though as it will be the last year mines a schoolboy. The years roll by too fast. It only seems like yesterday that he was starting school, little hand tightly clutching mine, Thomas the tank engine lunchbox in the other.
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Old 3rd September 2018, 03:52
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I'm alright.
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Old 3rd September 2018, 12:31
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^ You have my sympathy Speakfriend I used to HATE the school run because of the parents - an SA nightmare
Aw Muggins, your comment made me feel better.


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I feel so heavy hearted though as it will be the last year mines a schoolboy. The years roll by too fast. It only seems like yesterday that he was starting school, little hand tightly clutching mine, Thomas the tank engine lunchbox in the other.
It is sad when they grow up, but what sweet memory ! My other son is 18 months. I'm making the most of these cuddly years !
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Old 4th September 2018, 06:54
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I've not long woken up, I started thinking about something and it's making me anxious.
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Old 13th September 2018, 21:43
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I feel a bit pissed off tbh. I went to my MH appointment today - which to be fair is more of an off-load chat than it is a counselling session - and I had to listen to her (the lady I see) talking more about herself more than I got to talk about stuff.

And the bit that got my back up the most was when she said, with no sense of irony how happy she'll be when she gets her massive house back after her son moves back out while I'm couped in a two bed flat looking after 7 cats
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Old 14th September 2018, 05:52
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^ Sounds like she's in the wrong job. I hope you're okay.
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Old 14th September 2018, 21:13
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I seem to be calm, but wary of getting sick or something. Had a good week, reconnected with my hobbies this month, even rode my bike yesterday. Tired now though
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Old 14th September 2018, 21:23
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I feel a bit pissed off tbh. I went to my MH appointment today - which to be fair is more of an off-load chat than it is a counselling session - and I had to listen to her (the lady I see) talking more about herself more than I got to talk about stuff.

And the bit that got my back up the most was when she said, with no sense of irony how happy she'll be when she gets her massive house back after her son moves back out while I'm couped in a two bed flat looking after 7 cats
She maybe needs a wee counselling session herself. It's rubbish when you feel your progress is being limited by stuff outwith your control

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I seem to be calm, but wary of getting sick or something. Had a good week, reconnected with my hobbies this month, even rode my bike yesterday. Tired now though
I hope you got yourself some sausage, mash and skittles. And tea.
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Old 15th September 2018, 23:53
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That doesn't sound very er helpful or professional Kooky Monster. It's not a chat you're having. Sheesh. As for the massive house to herself thing -ARGH! That would be annoying if you WERE having a chat.
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Old 25th September 2018, 02:16
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I'm over thinking at stupid o'clock after looking at your current living situations thread.

I think I've missed the boat when it comes to buying my own place .

Now I'm hoping a small lottery win is on the cards, or any sauk member might need a lodger when I'm homeless and poor, how your brain works at stupid o'clock.

** don't quote please.
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Old 25th September 2018, 07:04
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We're a similar age newbs and I'm probably about 20 years away from being able to buy anywhere. Being a home owner isn't the be all and end all of everything
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Old 25th September 2018, 19:50
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