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Have felt crap all day - went to see about some voluntary gardening work and the place was nice but I just stood there like a moronic rock in a hoodie. Actually quite cheerful this evening as I have found this board and volunteered for a meetup
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Good bad indifferent
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I used to really be into graffiti, but SA and agoraphobia put a stop to it (just when I was starting to get the hang of thing!) But it got me into stuff like screen printing/printmaking/vector graphics, that has been a really useful skill! But back on topic.......The 30+ how are you feeling thread I'm feeling really confused on what I should be wearing!!!! I spent my 20's in hooded tops, Ts, baggy trousers round my ass and baseball caps, then I lost 6 years to Agoraphobia and SA and now I find myself at 33 getting ready to go back into society with no clue on what threads I should be rocking?!?!?!? I refuse to wear a baseball cap after 30, and just wish I had someone I could run outfits past! So many question....is normal to have developed a penchant for brown Harris tweed herringbone jackets, what's the consensus on cordary, what is with all the tight trousers and wearing two belts and when did guys start using GHDs? |
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^Cool, yeah I know what you mean about anxieties putting a stop to it.
Regarding clothes, there's a Mens clothes thread in the Lounge. Quote:
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I felt buoyant on the way home, sun was out and I'd got through the day ok but now I'm back it's all a bit meh as I've got nowhere to go and no one to do anything with so the depression is kicking in a bit.
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Im still a full blown agoraphobic hermit that has mind melting panic attacks 100 yards from my house .....but each week I do a little better, and its no longer triggered by other people around me, or interactions with them. (But most of all, I really count myself lucky that I've never suffered depression, and have managed day to day really well despite the SA and agoraphobia, something I don't think I could have done with depression) Thanks to working on the SA, im letting people back into my life. Also starting to stress about buying new cloths for going out, so that signals an improvement in the agoraphobia! |
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I picked my current therapist from http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/ and was liberiating to pick someone with the skill sets I felt were needed! Quote:
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Feeling relaxed but only due to my temporary ability to distance myself from the world around me.
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Feeling a bit inadequate because the cake I have just baked looks nothing like the picture
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I feel incredibly lonely,what friends and family I did have don't seem to want to keep in contact or are too busy and have been for quite some time now and I don't have a clue why or what it was that I had done wrong and I wish things were different.
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Feeling really anxious and edgy for some reason. Could be because husband works shifts and this is his long weekend at home and even though he doesn't pressure me (in fact he is just happy if I am o.k), I feel I should keep busy to justify my existence. SAUK is so addictive though - my household duties have been neglected lol
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Only if you focus on the negatives. I admit that i regret my 20s. I wasted them waiting for things to happen, and they never do, everything has to be created or done through ourselves. Unless we are lucky enough to exist in a really friendly environment where opportunity occurs, otherwise you have to go out and chase success in every detail. Which is hard. Some people have genetic advantages, personality advantages and it's not easy. You are 30 but you can still sort of fit into to the mid to late 20s category for a while. And people don't start to age that much until late 30s, sometimes later, unless you really let yourself go early and just stop caring. So stay positive. Anything you want to achieve can only be done through repetition. practicing it as much as you can. Achievements never fall out of the sky. |
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Like having a day off from putting any effort in today. Will get back on track tomorrow.
30 is not old. In another ten years you'll be looking back and thinking how young you were/looked! |
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Sorry dude. : (
Hope it doesn't hit you as hard as it probably is now over the coming days. |
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Today I just feel like a coiled spring. Need to stop drinking coffee now and calm down.
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Strangely thoughtful today.
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Disappointed. My bread has gone mouldy lol.
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at the age of 38 I'm finally going to my first concert so feeling excited
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thirty seconds to mars, going with my daughter so will try hard not to get over excited and embarrass her lol its at the 02 which holds alot of people so feeling slightly anxious about that
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hoping I sleep better tonight, kept myself busy today, caught up with lots of housework and laundry so hopefully tired myself out so mind wont go into over thinking mode tonight |