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It could be a mixture of 2 things really. In addition to the writing phobia I have never really talked about my feelings before. I grew up in a family where everyone just argued and shouted about stuff that got them down, nobody from my family says "I love you". Obviously, my SA has prevented me from having anyone I could really confide in so I've never shared my feelings with a friend. I do have a boyfriend and he is usually great with understanding the emotional turmoil of living with me (he thinks all girls are crazy anyway) but whenever I try to talk about the stuff that's at the heart of my anxiety and start crying, he starts being really silly and trying to make me laugh to change the subject. I suppose this site is the first time I have ever really shared my true anxieties with anyone. P.S. Thanks Celine, I didn't see your post before. I think you are right, if I'm going to conquer my SA I might as well aim to get over my writing fear. It is an integral part of my SA and I might as well get help for it from a therapist instead of more avoidance Last edited by Mina; 27th August 2012 at 02:15. Reason: To reply to Celine :) |
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I hope you are doing well I like your attitude and even if you just start by countering your thoughts on paper in the TEA form CBT exercise I think that will build your confidence as well as help you overcome your writing fears. It's a real basic exercise and has helped me immensely. |
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For me, CBT involved a nurse telling me everything I already knew, having done a psychology A level. It was rather patronising! I had CBT with this nurse, and told him more than he'd studied, so he could do nothing more with me. It was a complete disappointment, especially when all you need is direction.
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Sorry I have returned to this after quite a delay lol
What is a TEA form? |
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Hi all, I haven't read through all the posts relating to this question so apologies if I am repeating info.
CBT is available on the NHS nationally so no-one should have to consider going private. There are IAPT services available in most localities and you can generally refer yourself, or if not, your GP can refer you. Services are delivered in a stepped care apprach, depending upon the severity of your condition. The is also 'guided' CBT which is an online programme with weekly telephone contact from a CBT practitioner. Whichever way it is delivered, CBT is a collaborative approach where you are expected to actively participate and challege thoughts and behaviours, so it can be a demanding process There are some excellent self help books, particularly the 'Overcoming..' series which are quite cheap to buy. The one on SA is by Gillian Butler and uses a CBT approach. I Lastly, though CBT is currently the recommended treatment for anxiety/depression and many other disorders, it doesn't suit everyone, so its worth shopping round to see what else your local NHS offers. If your not sure where to find out have a look at your local NHS website for mental health services, or ask your GP what is available. Hope this helps and sorry again if I have repeated stuff, but I've seen a lot of posts like this. Good luck whatever you do! |
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Well said Celine. Far too many therapists claim to be doing CBT but are not. CBT is not traditional talk therapy and does not involve talking about your past. It's all about learning to use tools like the TEA form etc to train your brain to react more objectively!
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Originally Posted by herb Ditto and well said. The TEA forms from Sam Obitz's cbt book have worked wonders for me, or shall I say I have used them to work wonders for me Quote:
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When a soccer player gets injured he's not wasting time going over how it happened (it really makes no difference), he's spending his time on getting better so he can get back in the game. |
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I'm doing CBT at the moment too. My therapist is quite keen on finding out about my past and thinks my relationship with my Mum has had quite a bearing on my difficulties.
I seem to be a bit CBT-resistant but I really like my therapist so I've been trying my best with it. I think my problem is that I seem to do a lot of the techniques they teach you already so it hasn't taught me anything new as yet and I'm now getting near the end of the course. |
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I'm not an expert by any means, just sharing my experience. I am just saying that you can get caught up looking into the past and trying to understand and miss doing the stuff that makes a difference. That was my experience anyway. |
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My experience with CBT was great (and very different from yours) we were told that how you got where you are is of little use, but dealing and moving forward is the key to feeling better. It worked for me, and I hope you find something that works for you |
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Thanks Herb- I had CBT today in fact. It's very much a mixture of the helpful and the not so helpful for me but my therapist seems to think I'm doing well with it so I shall persevere!
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I like the nearsighted example a lot better than the soccer one, but I did understand your point in the soccer one. I would say my experience would be somewhat similar herb. I admit I still wonder how my problems started but not as often now that I am feeling so much better |
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