fedupoflife&fightingnegthoughts

[misslaura]

basically

[Stervek]

I hear ya misslaura

I wish I knew the answer. It seems like one long uphill battle.

Wish I could say something to cheer you up, sorry!

Kev

[Pal]

Originally Posted by MasterCaster

Fed up of it? Do something about it.

I agree but maybe she needs something to push her along, i certainetly did.

[Pal]

Originally Posted by MasterCaster

Help in what respect ?

Well for example for me the crush issue sort of kicked me into gear and made me realise that i need to push to get over that fear.

When the thought of staying in a rut then getting out there i more desireable then actually trying then people are always going to choose the former but if there's something out there you need then the fear is easier to overide.

[Pal]

Originally Posted by MasterCaster

What I meant by saying that was picking up some CBT would help put jumbled thinking into perspective. Its not something that really needs outside influences. I never found it helpful, but maybe that's because if people helped me 'get better' I would feel obligated to them. If I failed I would feel like I was letting them down and if I succeded I would feel like maybe I couldn't have done it on my own. I've always confronted my problems alone because I don't want to be treated differently by people close to me, or have that as a possible stigma. Nobody has ever helped me with my physcological issues. I have always ever had, and insisted, on practial help. Its always been easier that way.

Sometime we need a kick in the ass to get us motivated to do these things.

Do agree with what you're saying though!!

[Freespirit]

Originally Posted by misslaura

basically

Hey Laura.

It is really tiring and frustrating.

Hope things ease for you soon. Always here when you want a chat.



Daz. xxx

[misslaura]

Originally Posted by MasterCaster

Fed up of it? Do something about it.

how do you know im not...


Thanks everyone i nearly cried reading these posts today is a new day guess i will keep on trying like alot of people on here do everyday x keep smiling hay

[Freespirit]

Originally Posted by misslaura

how do you know im not...


Thanks everyone i nearly cried reading these posts today is a new day guess i will keep on trying like alot of people on here do everyday x keep smiling hay

Thats the spirit

Daz xx