What are the most attractive qualities to you?

[biscuits]

Let’s go with behaviours, personality etc. rather than physical attributes (mainly because I don’t want anyone to feel self conscious clicking on the thread.)

[Percy]

Kindness, gentleness, good humour.

[genovese]

What Percy said + emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence is massively underrated, often ignored.

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[3stacks]

Kindness, humour

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[girlinterrupted]

Someone who makes me laugh, smart but not uptight or an intellectual snob, who can be daft and silly and random and self-deprecating amongst the serious and grown up. Sweetness with a side of feisty. Passion and enthusiasm for something, or everything. The ability to make me feel (emotionally) safe (so a nice mash up of other qualities like honesty, loyalty, patience etc).

Actually now I think about it also someone who works quite differently to me in some ways. I find that intriguing.

[biscuits]

^ it's okay to interpret the question however you chose to

I think I find silliness most attractive, but knowing when not to be silly as well. Maybe it's timing that I find attractive. People who get the timing of everything right - when to be silly and when to be serious. When to be forgiving and when not to take people's rubbish. There's an element of sensitivity towards others.

Also those people who can just instantly put you at ease and you feel safe around them because they're sort of predictable but not in a boring way, in a trustworthy way.

Also someone that knows their way around a potato.

[anxiouslondoner]

I'd settle for someone who didn't try to murder me in my sleep every night.

What's important to me, I guess being affectionate, kind, low expectations, a reet daft sense of humour, and ideally the sole heir of an elderly billionaire.

[Scurrilous Rumour]

Originally Posted by anxiouslondoner

I'd settle for someone who didn't try to murder me in my sleep every night.

Sound like you are in a difficult relationship, anxiouslondoner.

and ideally the sole heir of an elderly billionaire.

Now you're talking. Although I'd settle for a millionaire.

[anxiouslondoner]

^ haha, no, only in a difficult relationship with myself. But less murdery.