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I have no idea how to initiate a relationship of any kind. Any relationships I've had have resulted from an approach by a woman and a laissez-faire attitude from my end. |
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Look for TOWIE/Made In Chelsea forums. There are probably girls on there that are impressed by shiny tin foil. Use some to lure them back to yours.
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#273
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if having a job is important to the woman you are talking to then IRL no woman is going to tell you to your face your lack of employment is a deal breaker. [unless you portray yourself as someone who's happy being unemployed and not making any efforts to find work or something like that] the worst i've ever had, was a sad/disapointed looking face when i told her i was currently out of work. then her enthusiasm for convo died pretty quickly and she stopped flirting. sometimes it can be hard to tell as reactions arn't usually that obvious. i'd say go with your gut. if you tell her you're unemployed and you feel the vibe change then be suspicious she may be one of the ones who holds having a job in high regards. Quote:
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i dont think you need to go for 18 olds. i've looked at several online polls (big ones) and it seems around 50% of women say they would not date someone without a job. but what people say, and what they actually do when it comes down to the crunch are often different. if you met a woman you had a connection with IRL and you were studying, or making an effort to find work or doing something with yourself ...then you would probably be able to convert some of that 50% who on paper say they wouldnt date you. |
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Ok, if I were to meet a guy and he didn't have a job, that wouldn't bother me, but i'd be curious at to the reasons why. My boyfriend didn't have a job and he has SA, I found that fair enough. Like if it would be fair enough if he was looking for work. But if I were to meet a guy who didn't have a job just because he really couldn't be bothered with one, or scrounged off his folks, that might be different.
I think some people just want as much money coming into the relationship as possible. I've known girls who wouldn't go out with guys who worked in fast food or a cinema or something like that |
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i'd rather say i was unemployed then tell a girl i was interested in that i was working in fast food lol.
i'd tell a girl if i was working in retail, but i'd emphasize the point i only mean it to be temporary and have took the just job whilst waiting to get a proper job. |
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Ever since finishing university I've been unable to find employment. I do voluntary work, but I almost feel like I'm seen as being part of some sort of sub-class due to unemployment.
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#277
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there's no shame in having that kind of job. having any job is something these days. and it shows a willingness , there's like...a dignity in working a *crappy* job.
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I have done speed dating before, and you always get atleast one or two girls who either go into screening mode once they find out you're currently not in work ..."how long have you been out of work for?" , where have you been looking for work? what do you do all day?, don't you get bored at home?, what's your typical day like?" and you may also get one, who as soon as they learn you're not currently in work they loose all enthusiasm. but dont worry, only a small percentage of girls act like this. im not looking forward to it but a mate of mine wants to go speed dating and wants me to go with him, but im really not keen on speed dating tbh but i havent seen him for almost a year so feel bad to refuse him |
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I honestly would feel too embarrassed. especially if she was like some design consultant or manager or something. |
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well that's fair enough i guess. the only job i've ever had was in a cinema and i know some people thought "..oh" when i told them that's what i did, but **** em. i felt proud of myself for working and being self reliant..
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I know you say you're not too keen on it, but what was speed dating like? Was it worth the experience?
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^I have no tin foil but I do have a wizards hat made out of paper? It that enough to impress some ladies?
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#285
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I like the fact everyone on here seems to be having conversations with the opposite sex to give out all this advice.
Meeting a girl/woman who would even give me the time of day is nigh on impossible. |
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i dunno, how's it's going to shield against mind controlling waves if it's not made out of tin foil..?
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#287
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i am quite introverted. having a 4 minute convo 20 times with 20 different people tired me out. in the end SA and anxiety got the better of me and at the end, when people go off to the bar and mingle i was unable to due to SA and just made chit chat with some other guy who seemed to be a bit tired out like me.... at the end is where when people go off to mingle is where the real game begins as you have the option to try and stand out and get more than 4 mins.. i think it's worth going if you dont mind spending 20 quid. but i wouldnt get your hopes up getting a date as if the girl is quite pretty then almost every guy will be interested and that is alot of competition. |
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I can't seem to hold down a stable job. Always something temporary and not permanent. I am actively looking for a permanent job and also studying an accountancy qualification from home. So if a woman suddenly loses interest simply because I do not have a job, then yes I would feel offended.
But then again that's no surprise especially from a guy who has been told by a woman that I have a "nice face". What a ridiculous compliment , I can see right through that. |
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i will look upon your treasures, gypsy..
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#292
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what's wrong with being told you have a nice face?
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#293
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AAT is the best course to do re: Accounts BTW |
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"you have a nice face" is the type of awkward compliment i would give.
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she was complimenting your appearance, she thought you were good looking.
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You will almost certainly get a relationship with kind of money and kudos. |
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