what are your goals/dreams (positive only please)

[PussyRiot]

Originally Posted by Akira

Mine is to get on top of my anxieties and build up my confidence. I also want to learn to trust people more and not assume I'll be judged every time I open up. Getting back on a waiting list for CBT and doing exposure therapy in the meantime is my immediate goal. After that, probably finding a job that I can actually do.

That sounds like a great place to start, once you have achieved all that, who knows what is round the corner - exciting. Good luck with the journey, x

[PussyRiot]

I would love to go and see a band with my husband and his mates. I never go even though I love the bands. New Model Army are appearing in North Wales in November and I have told my husband to get tickets. It is a small venue/night club/pub so not too scary and he is going with two friends I always avoid when they visit.

I want to go sooooooo much. My husband said 'I know you will cancel at the last minute.'

I am going to really really try. If I can just make it to this, I know it will open a door. I miss seeing live bands so much. I have missed out and I must go, please God/gardian angel/spirit guides please please get me there!

[PussyRiot]

Originally Posted by Geddalexneil

I'm 51 and still doing festivals, so you have plenty of time.

My immediate goal is to leave the house - it's been 3 weeks since I last managed that; then I need to find a GP, get my benefits restarted, find some therapy, buy a washing machine and fridge then get a job.

Once I've managed those, I can think about looking for a relationship.

In the longer term, I'd like to travel more, join a rambling club or something similar, join a naturists' club (preferably after losing a little weight) and get to more concerts and festivals, once I can afford them.

Yes, I need to get out and see gp, sort out benefits etc. More difficult to get motivated on the horrible stuff. Seeing bands and going to festivals is one of my major goals too. My life is on hold till I lose weight and get in shape. SA makes you comfort eat specially if you feel bored, and you don't tend to exercise as much. I have a treadmill and mini trampoline in my house, so gonna jump about on that before I allow myself to wobble along to a festival, especially with all those beautiful festival babes in sarongs! good luck

[BritishPeace]

Start volunteering to get out more

[PussyRiot]

Originally Posted by Geddalexneil

Oh for the days when I was happy to wander naked round Glastonbury!

Yes oh for the days that I could slip through the fence without paying

[sillypenguin]

Be happy with how I look - my diet doesn't help and I dont go to gym enough
Go travelling round Asia and America
Get a job I like and that I can actually do correctly and doesn't completely stress me out
Meet new friends
Do a course, hopefully in something travel related or languages
Take more risks!