Moving out!

[cl111]

Better to house share or try get my own place?
The two ways of viewing this quandary where....
Move into house share and force yourself to be friendly, then spend lots of time in your room worrying if they think you are weird and anti social !
But run the possibility of making a new friend?

Or

Get your own place and actually become a hermit ;-( all be it a relaxed one??

[findersfee]

Originally Posted by cl111

Better to house share or try get my own place?
The two ways of viewing this quandary where....
Move into house share and force yourself to be friendly, then spend lots of time in your room worrying if they think you are weird and anti social !
But run the possibility of making a new friend?

Or

Get your own place and actually become a hermit ;-( all be it a relaxed one??

hiya,
a house share is only good really if you are true good friends with the people your getting one with and that you trust them otherwise can be a nightmare, yes if you get your own place you might become a hermit but at least your safe, secure and only let the people in that you want in, and you know where you stand a lot more having your own place, but then its upto you which you feel most comfy doing,

[cl111]

Some times I just chuck myself in at the deep end to see what happens! Last time I got burgled so maybe your right lol!

[findersfee]

Originally Posted by cl111

Some times I just chuck myself in at the deep end to see what happens! Last time I got burgled so maybe your right lol!

yes me too lol i did it a few years back and had to go into hospical and when i came out everyone had moved and took everything even me bed lol

[cl111]

Not cool!

[AAAli]

Originally Posted by cl111

Better to house share or try get my own place?
The two ways of viewing this quandary where....
Move into house share and force yourself to be friendly, then spend lots of time in your room worrying if they think you are weird and anti social !
But run the possibility of making a new friend?

Or

Get your own place and actually become a hermit ;-( all be it a relaxed one??

Thats what I have been wondering, would it pay off to throw yourself in the deep end like that, sometimes it does for me. But it would also take away that one place where I can relax and not feel anxious which is my home :/
it would be possible to make a really close friend from it, but the start and possibly the whole thing would make me feel really anxious.
If I had a house to myself I would have somewhere to relax but I would probably not leave apart from work.

I think if you are up to the anxiety of it you should throw yourself in the deep end, better than having your own house and always wondering what would happen. If it doesn't work out you can always get a house to yourself after.