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Old 12th April 2023, 15:33
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this is trending on Hotukdeals

https://www.hotukdeals.com/deals/how...dships-4118309

Don't know if any good
I've just ordered it so i'll see.

Thanks Laurel

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Further to my post above, this Kabat-Zinn book seems to be more specifically aimed at stress: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Full-Catast...ks%2C93&sr=1-3 I haven't read it but have heard it is good.
Apparently i've got it, i don't remember buying it but it seems i did
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Old 13th April 2023, 11:20
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You seem to be creating an anxiety library, Percy!

Going slightlly off your topic, but if you're very stressed, this is a link to a very good body scan meditation (which I have posted before so apologies if you've already seen it). https://archive.org/details/MCullenBodyScanMeditation
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Old 13th April 2023, 16:24
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I'm creating a non fiction library.

Thanks for the link, i'll give the body scan a try.
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Old 14th April 2023, 08:40
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The best book on SA imho, one I always come back to. You can get it on scAmazon or download a free pdf of it online (not sure if I’m allowed to say that)

https://blackwells.co.uk/bookshop/pr.../9780997460018
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Old 14th April 2023, 09:13
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Authors of self help books are a bit waffly and syrupy, but in the past I have used some self-help websites because they get to the point quicker

NHS Scotland has good resources, which have been updated since I last accessed them. Previously it was called Mood Juice and they were more like leaflets.

This is a self-cbt exercise booklet for social anxiety, which has links at the bottom. If you scroll down to the bottom of the page you can download and save it as a pdf.

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses...elf-help-guide

They cover a wider range e.g. self-esteem, OCD, depression, addiction:

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses...lf-help-guides

This is another which has links on the last page for other areas:
https://web.ntw.nhs.uk/selfhelp/leaf...%20Anxiety.pdf

This is a little library where you click on the self-help guide you'd like to read:
https://www.dpt.nhs.uk/self-help-guides/
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Old 14th April 2023, 10:26
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The best book on SA imho, one I always come back to. You can get it on scAmazon or download a free pdf of it online (not sure if I’m allowed to say that)

https://blackwells.co.uk/bookshop/pr.../9780997460018
I like that they even give you the spine width,... seems like a very detailed analysis of the book's physical attributes.
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Old 15th April 2023, 12:34
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The best book on SA imho, one I always come back to. You can get it on scAmazon or download a free pdf of it online (not sure if I’m allowed to say that)

https://blackwells.co.uk/bookshop/pr.../9780997460018
Excellent, i'll look into that one
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Old 15th April 2023, 12:34
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Authors of self help books are a bit waffly and syrupy, but in the past I have used some self-help websites because they get to the point quicker

NHS Scotland has good resources, which have been updated since I last accessed them. Previously it was called Mood Juice and they were more like leaflets.

This is a self-cbt exercise booklet for social anxiety, which has links at the bottom. If you scroll down to the bottom of the page you can download and save it as a pdf.

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses...elf-help-guide

They cover a wider range e.g. self-esteem, OCD, depression, addiction:

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses...lf-help-guides

This is another which has links on the last page for other areas:
https://web.ntw.nhs.uk/selfhelp/leaf...%20Anxiety.pdf

This is a little library where you click on the self-help guide you'd like to read:
https://www.dpt.nhs.uk/self-help-guides/
Nice one biscuits
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Old 15th April 2023, 12:37
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How to Help Yourself With Self-Help: A Short Guide on How to Use Self-Help Books to Achieve Your Goals

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/...?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I read this last night. An excellent book for those who've not found self help helpful in the past. Explores the reasons why self help might fail for you and offers solutions to over come those problems.

I read it in an hour, it's a short book but one that can help fill in the missing gaps for those who haven't found self help to be very helpful
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Old 15th April 2023, 13:05
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I had a few books in the past.
These days, I mostly watch self-help videos on YouTube or listen to podcasts.

At the moment, I find Dr Tracy Marks helpful



I also like the School of Life, tho they can be harsh on traumatic parents and I don't think that's always beneficial.

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Old 15th April 2023, 13:13
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Thanks Clumsy, i'll look into those
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Old 21st April 2023, 17:07
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https://www.amazon.co.uk/Grit-Keep-G...s%2C356&sr=8-3

Written by the same guy who did the "Help yourself with self help" book, this is an excellent book for those who think about giving up on their self development journey
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Old 30th April 2023, 14:10
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https://www.amazon.co.uk/Confidence-...%2C568&sr=8-11

Another book by Martin Meadows, this one on confidence. Actually it's about raising your self efficacy which in turn leads to greater confidence.

If you're interested in improving your self efficacy i can also recommend https://www.amazon.co.uk/Self-Effica...%2C665&sr=8-10

Goes into much more detail and is very academic but a good insight anyway
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Old 7th May 2023, 01:02
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Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion

A book about persuasion technique's and dealing with verbal conflict. Might be a bit advanced for someone with servere SA but could be useful for the person with milder SA.
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Old 9th May 2023, 20:32
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https://www.amazon.co.uk/10-Keys-Suc...%2C562&sr=8-20

Another one by John Bird that's worth a look.
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Old 21st May 2023, 17:45
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Another one by Martin Meadows

https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Think-B...s%2C178&sr=8-5

This one looks at why some aim high and others are content to aim low. An interesting look at the psychology of high achievers, if you want to be a high achiever that is.
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Old 27th May 2023, 20:33
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Stress Buster by Geoff Thompson

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Stress-Bust...1&sr=8-1-fkmr0

An excellent book on combating stress. Lots of common sense advice.
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Old 30th May 2023, 21:45
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Another couple of recommendations.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Upd...s%2C298&sr=8-1

Carol Dweck's Mindset is an excellent book on developing a growth mindset, rather than a fixed mindset.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Grit-passio...85040200&psc=1

Angela Duckworth's Grit is also an excellent book for developing resilience and passion
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Old 31st May 2023, 13:03
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Another recommendation

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Feel-Fear-A...s%2C690&sr=8-1

An excellent book for facing general fears.
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Old 6th June 2023, 23:45
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Won't be to everyone's taste but could be useful. Some uncomfortable truths in these clips.
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Old 6th June 2023, 23:48
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Old 10th June 2023, 21:40
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https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/19866223...hk_typ_imgToDp





For those of us who struggle to take action.
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Old 10th June 2023, 21:51
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...ou-don-t-wanna
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