The 30+ how are you feeling thread - Page 12

Silent Ninja · #**331** 28th September 2014, 08:07

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Originally Posted by ZooWeeMama

I think I'm bearing grudges against different people, but lately it's becoming a grudge against people in general. I'm so angry all the time and that I'm disrespected by others. I expect to be treated how I would treat them, but it doesn't happen. I'm scared I won't snap out of this & end up hating (or having no faith in) people forever. Anyone else feel like this?

I feel like this quite regularly, it always seems if you're polite and try to be helpful to others people just take advantage of this and screw you over for their own selfish gains.

ZooWeeMama · #**332** 28th September 2014, 12:46

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Originally Posted by Troy

I feel like this quite regularly, it always seems if you're polite and try to be helpful to others people just take advantage of this and screw you over for their own selfish gains.

Yes, I agree, nice people get treat badly then you're in a position where you have to stand up for yourself, which is confrontation, which is so hard for people like us. Loudmouths, banter experts even if they're nasty people, get respect, because people fear them. It's a shame people are only motivated by fear.

Cowman · #**333** 17th October 2014, 19:38

I feel completely alone, as usual. I can't stand this horrible feeling. I make a few friends who write to me here and there on Facebook, but that's all. I can't make any real friends, and all my attempts at finding someone as more than a friend never work. Even people here with SA mostly have a partner and friends. Most people here are teens or in their 20's, so I'm glad for this section of the forums, but I do wish there were some sub-sections and more people around nearer my age who might actually want to know me. It's impossible finding people, it really is impossible, and I don't have any choice but to give up. I'm not choosing to - I just have nowhere left to turn.

Cowman · #**334** 17th October 2014, 21:44

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Originally Posted by Nat36

^ sorry you feel so alone cowman

Are you able to get out at all? I joined a meetup group a few months ago and was able to make a couple of friends through that. The one I belong to is local to me and for people in their 30's/40s. Maybe you could see if there is one near you. Keep posting on here. There are lots of good people of all ages.

Thanks Nat. I can get out, yea, and can travel a little if I need to. I often look at meetup groups but never find anything close to what I'd be comfortable doing. Maybe I'm being too fussy? I'll have another look.

Cowman · #**335** 17th October 2014, 22:47

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Originally Posted by nineofswords

^ cowman, you can try getting in touch with time to talk. they can give you contact details for meetup groups in the sussex area for people with mental health problems. perhaps you could find people through that?
http://www.sussexcommunity.nhs.uk/se..._locations.htm

hth.

Thanks for the link.

I have to say that the photo on that first page of a group of people sitting tightly in a group, scares the hell out of me. Oh well I have to do SOMEthing I suppose. I'll look through that page more, and I'm looking at the meetup site in more detail too.

T · #**336** 18th October 2014, 09:23

My back has gone again and its really sore when i straighten it ggrrr at the mo i'm walking round like an old man which i hate and when i sit down i can't get comfy and when i need painkillers i've got to have something to eat beforehand otherwise i feel sick..... ggrrr damn hope it gets better soon!

CyprusPluto · #**337** 18th October 2014, 09:30

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Originally Posted by T

My back has gone again and its really sore when i straighten it ggrrr at the mo i'm walking round like an old man which i hate and when i sit down i can't get comfy and when i need painkillers i've got to have something to eat beforehand otherwise i feel sick..... ggrrr damn hope it gets better soon!

I have a bad back since I used to weight train when I was younger. Slipped discs, the lot.

In the last 12 months I've been doing twisting and stretching exercises every morning when I get up and every night just before I go to bed. Only takes 5 minutes each time, but other than the odd twinge I've not had a problem since.

T · #**338** 18th October 2014, 09:38

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Originally Posted by Azalea

Hope it gets better soon T

Cheers Azalea

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Originally Posted by CyprusPluto

I have a bad back since I used to weight train when I was younger. Slipped discs, the lot.

In the last 12 months I've been doing twisting and stretching exercises every morning when I get up and every night just before I go to bed. Only takes 5 minutes each time, but other than the odd twinge I've not had a problem since.

yep i know all about slipped discs had to have part of my disc removed when i was 16 when i slipped it and every now and then it flairs up, i should really carry on with some exercises the physio has given me to do but i'm abit lazy at times...

umm · #**339** 18th October 2014, 10:34

I'm feeling magnificently small and twisted. The thoughts golluming through my mind at the moment are a little vicious, a little malicious - neither lovely nor delicious. Most of them concern my extended family who are all good looking, witty and with a considerable independent income.

anxiouslondoner · #**340** 23rd October 2014, 05:28

Old, useless and without any hope. It's that time of year again.
How much longer do I keep hoping for the impossible?
I can't carry on pretending that things are going to change.
I am too broken to be fixed. Throw me away and get a new one.

jevets · #**341** 23rd October 2014, 10:46

I would say am one of the oldest on here 48

daznsaz · #**342** 23rd October 2014, 14:07

bit cheesed off cos my game dint come in the post today

Azalea · #**343** 23rd October 2014, 14:19

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Originally Posted by daznsaz

bit cheesed off cos my game dint come in the post today

Well get on with your decorating then

daznsaz · #**344** 23rd October 2014, 14:42

ive done for the day now

***8593;

Azalea · #**345** 23rd October 2014, 15:02

Part timer

daznsaz · #**346** 23rd October 2014, 15:04

***8593;cheeky sod

Azalea · #**347** 23rd October 2014, 15:06

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Originally Posted by daznsaz

***8593;cheeky sod

ZooWeeMama · #**348** 27th October 2014, 15:24

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Originally Posted by Cowman

I feel completely alone, as usual. I can't stand this horrible feeling. I make a few friends who write to me here and there on Facebook, but that's all. I can't make any real friends, and all my attempts at finding someone as more than a friend never work. Even people here with SA mostly have a partner and friends. Most people here are teens or in their 20's, so I'm glad for this section of the forums, but I do wish there were some sub-sections and more people around nearer my age who might actually want to know me. It's impossible finding people, it really is impossible, and I don't have any choice but to give up. I'm not choosing to - I just have nowhere left to turn.

Have you sought help for your loneliness? Here's a link to a blog about loneliness, it has a support group. I haven't tried it, just thought it might be worth a read http://www.webofloneliness.com/the-l...go-join-a-club

Also http://www.mind.org.uk/information-s.../#.VE5WDhYhP90

Larry F · #**349** 28th October 2014, 16:48

Today I'm feeling good. Re-joined this excellent site again just now and looking forward to chatting away!

Azalea · #**350** 28th October 2014, 17:19

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Originally Posted by Larry F

Today I'm feeling good. Re-joined this excellent site again just now and looking forward to chatting away!

Ponytales67 · #**351** 28th October 2014, 22:00

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Originally Posted by jevets

I would say am one of the oldest on here 48

If you are, only just - I am 47
Think there are a few 45+ peeps on here - you not alone

Larry F · #**352** 28th October 2014, 23:13

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Originally Posted by Ponytales67

If you are, only just - I am 47
Think there are a few 45+ peeps on here - you not alone

50 here :eek:

Azalea · #**353** 28th October 2014, 23:45

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Originally Posted by Larry F

50 here :eek:

Still younger than me

anxiouslondoner · #**354** 28th October 2014, 23:54

I'm 37, but only for another hour or so...
The usual time to reflect back on my life, realise how utterly pointless and broken it all was and hunt for the nearest, strongest alcoholic drink in the building...

Larry F · #**355** 29th October 2014, 00:54

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Originally Posted by anxiouslondoner

I'm 37, but only for another hour or so...
The usual time to reflect back on my life, realise how utterly pointless and broken it all was and hunt for the nearest, strongest alcoholic drink in the building...

Happy birthday! :beer:
Try not to dwell too much on the past and look forward to a new year, a new start.

Coffee · #**356** 30th October 2014, 12:48

I need a poo. Well, you did ask!

Carmine · #**357** 15th December 2014, 02:36

Hello, I'm 40 years old!

theseventhhill · #**358** 4th January 2015, 20:59

Felt a lot of stress and constant self loathing, flipped the switch went for a bike ride and now back to strolling the boulevard of broken dreams

LittleMissMouse · #**359** 30th January 2015, 10:14

One Ctrl + P away from resigning at the moment

ithinkiamlost · #**360** 30th January 2015, 10:31

@MissRibble
I think it is to do with power. For almost all of human history women have been considered as less than men in society. Only suitable for child bearing and cleaning up after the men. The last hundred years have proved this wrong time and time again and now women are advancing at a rate that is leaving many men behind. A number of men now find themselves in a world where they don't have the power anymore and I think they lash out in some strange attempt to reclaim it.