On judgemental people

[Laurel]

https://www.yourtango.com/2019322446...mental-people?


1) “Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.” — Unknown


2) “When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.” — Wayne Dyer


3) “People will question all the good things they hear about you, but believe the bad without a second thought.” — Unknown


4) “Do not judge my story by the chapter you walked in on.” — Unknown


5) “It’s quite possible to walk strongly in your convictions without passing judgment on others.” — Unknown (Interesting)

6) “Be proud of who you are, not ashamed of how someone else sees you.” — Unknown

7) “Welcome to our society. You will be judged on what you wear, your taste in music, what you look like and how you act. Enjoy your stay.” — Unknown

8)“We live in a society that will look you up and down before they look into your eyes.” — Unknown

[Dougella]

I love that first quote, I've definitely had to learn that.

[Percy]

Some good quotes there.

[anxiouslondoner]

I hate people who are constantly judging others, and I'm not afraid to say so.
Even if it did get me thrown out of the courtroom.


da-dum tssh

[Shy_pretty_Angela]

The problem is that everyone judges everyone else in society and its a fact that we all have to accept.

[biscuits]

^ Yes, I don’t know anyone who isn’t judgy as hell over something haha. Some people just think they’re righteous in their judgments so don’t see it as that.

[Percy]

I've had more than my share of judgemental people over the years and one thing I can say for certain, these people are far from perfect themselves.

[Shy_pretty_Angela]

Perhaps the goal should be not to judge ourselves. There are no perfect people and if there were the world would be very boring indeed!

[Dougella]

^^ People who judge others harshly and for superficial reasons are usually pretty insecure themselves I've found.

[anxiouslondoner]

^ aren't you being a bit judgmental there?

[Shy_pretty_Angela]

The thing is lots of us judge pthers inside our heads so no one knows what we are thinking!

[genovese]

The emptier your soul the more judgey ye be.

That's in the bible.
Somewhere in the back.


Heal your soul & your trauma and all that superficial judgement will naturally fade. To say you'll be happier for it is an understatement.

[Dougella]

Originally Posted by anxiouslondoner

^ aren't you being a bit judgmental there?

Maybe....Although i know that from being somewhat judgemental and insecure in the past too.

Genovese put it better than i did.

[Shy_pretty_Angela]

Originally Posted by genovese

The emptier your soul the more judgey ye be.

That's in the bible.
Somewhere in the back.


Heal your soul & your trauma and all that superficial judgement will naturally fade. To say you'll be happier for it is an understatement.

This is very true and actually one of the side effects of developing a spiritual connection to God. All the small things become insignificant when you find God or whatever your version of that may be!

[choirgirl]

I was a lot more chill when I was younger and I certainly hadn't healed my trauma, so that's a load of poo.

The least judgey people are old people who can't be stuffed any more. They know that they don't have much control over anything, people are going to people, things will change and stay the same, they're just tired of caring but in a peaceful way rather than a grumpy way. But it's normal to be judgemental, it's just how humans are.

[Sea]

Originally Posted by Shy_pretty_Angela

The problem is that everyone judges everyone else in society and its a fact that we all have to accept.

I think that's right, judging people is 'just' a human trait. No-one can really say they do not do it. It's automatic and I think it is natural. Like predators judge every zebra in the herd before they decide which to go for. It's just life to assess others and to be assessed by others. Expect to be judged, but its how you deal with that judgement that matters.
I do not deal with it well, sigh.

[Bluebear]

Originally Posted by Laurel

https://www.yourtango.com/2019322446...mental-people?


1) “Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.” — Unknown


2) “When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.” — Wayne Dyer


3) “People will question all the good things they hear about you, but believe the bad without a second thought.” — Unknown


4) “Do not judge my story by the chapter you walked in on.” — Unknown


5) “It’s quite possible to walk strongly in your convictions without passing judgment on others.” — Unknown (Interesting)

6) “Be proud of who you are, not ashamed of how someone else sees you.” — Unknown

7) “Welcome to our society. You will be judged on what you wear, your taste in music, what you look like and how you act. Enjoy your stay.” — Unknown

8)“We live in a society that will look you up and down before they look into your eyes.” — Unknown

Thanks for this thread. I wasn't here at all most of last year so apologies for the late reply, I have plenty I could say about some judgmental people but I'm not going to waste my time on them.

[Bluebear]

Originally Posted by genovese

The emptier your soul the more judgey ye be.

That's in the bible.
Somewhere in the back.


Heal your soul & your trauma and all that superficial judgement will naturally fade. To say you'll be happier for it is an understatement.

I think this is true...

for some anyway