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12 | 36.36% |
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3 | 9.09% |
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10 | 30.30% |
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8 | 24.24% |
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#1
18th July 2008, 22:49
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Hows ya hugging.
Hugging.
I didnt want this to be serious discussion.. How would you rate yourself at giving people hugs? Today I hugged someone atleast 3 or 4 times and it felt really crappy to me lol. I liked it.. but eh. hm. I didnt know what I doing tbh. I also hugged someone else about 3 times because I taking the piss out of him and do silly things but it wasnt a real hug like with the other woman. I donno I aint dissing myself, it wasnt awfull, but it didnt feel right either. Her breasts massive aswell so.. squidgy. She just a friend so ya I aint being bad its just it made it more complicated for me. :rolleyes: I dont know im very good at hugging people I havnt had much phsycial contact with tbh. She pretty much pushed me over one of the times. =S I wasnt even nervous.. she just put so much force into me and I wasnt expecting it. I need more practice I think. I been trying to do this more and more with people. Just practice lol... =p |
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#2
19th July 2008, 00:55
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
I think im good at hugging, I hugged about 7 strangers tonight
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#4
19th July 2008, 00:58
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
I've hugged people at SA meets and don't have a problem with it.
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#5
19th July 2008, 02:20
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
Just can't feel comfortable, so I try and avoid it. Especially if it's another man, for some reason.
I'm not that keen on physical contact in general, except with people I know very well (I can hug my mum just fine  ) Seems to make me jumpy.
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#6
19th July 2008, 02:34
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
My hugs lack confidence, in fear that I'm making the other person feel obliged, or that I might not do it the socially proper way. Meanwhile another part of my mind is waiting for my skin to tingle like it used to before I lost all sensitivity to human contact.
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#8
19th July 2008, 04:57
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
depends, i'm rubbish with those flimsy hello-goodbye hugs when you're in a group of people. sometimes i go a bit awkward what's-happening-here-we-appear-to-be-embracing-i-wasn't-quite-ready. but not always. i'm fine if it's a genuine one
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#9
19th July 2008, 05:08
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
my hugs are good, i put my all into them
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#10
19th July 2008, 09:07
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#11
19th July 2008, 10:36
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I think on the last one I improved slightly. These wernt like greeting hugs but more involved friendship hugs or something like that. Also I am a bit taller than her while she is a bit larger too. I just need to loosen up a bit. After the first time that was a surprise.. second time.. equally surprise.. third time.. surprise.. etc lol. Need to loosen up and enjoy the hug more myself... Btw I hug whoever guys I want. Most of em encourage it anyway. The women im usually more serious with =p but more complexed with their physical form and how you manage around it. I think I might ask her if I can practice a bit on her untill I can find that sensation again. Seriously.
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#13
19th July 2008, 17:38
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
Strangers and people I don't feel comfortable with - well I don't like being hugged by them very much so I seem awkward and try to escape as quickly as possible!
 So I'm probably not a very good hugger with them.With friends and people I feel comfortable with - I enjoy hugging. Not sure how good I am at hugging though! People are often unsure whether to hug me though - I think I give off a vibe which says 'hug me and you'll die'! I don't mean to, I really don't mind hugging friends! Never hugged a family member before so not sure about that! It would seem odd I guess as I'm not used to it. |
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#14
19th July 2008, 17:40
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Re: Hows ya hugging.
Excellent, I love hugging I don't think there is enough hugging in the world!
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#16
19th July 2008, 21:03
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Indeeeeeed! I do love my warm squishy hugs..
 I've always been a naturally touchy feely kind of girl since I was very young with both sexes. I'd love to teach the art of hugging! We need more of them in the world. 
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