SAUK Discussion Board

Go Back   SAUK Discussion Board > Social Anxiety Discussions > Room with a View
Join! Blogs FAQ Calendar Today's Posts Search

Notices

Reply  Post New Thread
 
Thread Tools
  #751  
Old 27th May 2022, 22:11
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Going to see LOTR in concert tomorrow night
Reply With Quote
  #752  
Old 27th May 2022, 22:57
Percy Percy is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Southampton
Posts: 10,832

Mood
Breezy

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^Lucky you.
Reply With Quote
  #753  
Old 28th May 2022, 16:44
Quietman Quietman is offline
Banned at own request
 
Join Date: Apr 2022
Posts: 709
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I'm really looking forward to Wimbledon this year.
Reply With Quote
  #754  
Old 29th May 2022, 07:42
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ same!

Quote:
Originally Posted by Percy
^Lucky you.
It was incredible! :D
Reply With Quote
  #755  
Old 29th May 2022, 12:53
Quietman Quietman is offline
Banned at own request
 
Join Date: Apr 2022
Posts: 709
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ Glad you had a good time at your concert Biscuits, I’ve never been to a concert before or a pub or nightclub really what’s the atmosphere like?
Reply With Quote
  #756  
Old 29th May 2022, 14:42
Percy Percy is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Southampton
Posts: 10,832

Mood
Breezy

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Quote:
Originally Posted by biscuits
^ same!



It was incredible! :D
Glad to hear it.
Reply With Quote
  #757  
Old 29th May 2022, 16:51
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Thanks, both!

^^ there's a different atmosphere at different gigs/concerts. It all depends on how the band works the crowd. Sometimes the crowd is silent and enjoying the music. Sometimes they're dancing, moshing... it depends on the genre of music too. A lot of gigs have different areas, so you can be in the crowd dancing or you can be in a seated area.

I only go to smallish venues. I've been to an arena once and it was just too big to really enjoy it - might as well just watch it at home on the telly!

I've been to a gig on a boat before. That was a lot of fun, everyone was dancing.

There's always been a great atmosphere at all of the gigs that I've been too :D

Last night was fairly quiet because it was the royal philharmonic orchestra playing along to a screening of The Fellowship of the Ring.
Reply With Quote
  #758  
Old 29th May 2022, 16:56
Quietman Quietman is offline
Banned at own request
 
Join Date: Apr 2022
Posts: 709
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ That sounds lovely, maybe in the future I could go to one the only thing is I can barely walk in public let alone dance in public I’d probably be put on you’ve been framed with dodgy dance moves.
Reply With Quote
  #759  
Old 29th May 2022, 17:15
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ I love going to gigs. Try going to a seated gig to start with then there's no pressure to dance. You can do a little chair dancing
Reply With Quote
  #760  
Old 31st May 2022, 11:21
Finlay Finlay is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 185

Mood
Sad

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I'm looking forward to finally getting my own place. I'm in my early 40s and apart from a brief spell flat-sharing in my late 20s, I've lived at home my whole life. It didn't actually bother me for the longest time, until my mid 30s when something clicked in my mind and my cosy living arrangement suddenly felt a bit restrictive. Nothing anything my family did wrong or anything like that, I just started to realise that I couldn't stay like this forever...I mean I could stay like this forever, but I don't think it would be good for me in the long run.

So, at the tender age of 35 I began properly saving for a deposit. Up till that point I had hardly any savings because I'd blow my wages on tat I'd buy from Amazon to give me a brief dopamine high. Oh, a boxset of the 80s sitcom Watching that I'll never get round to watching? I'll have that! Doesn't sound much but it all adds up. So I curbed the random spending, set up an ISA, and began putting away a bit each month. There was the odd occasion I'd have to dip into my savings for an unexpected bill, but generally I left it alone. Managed to somehow have a 3 year relationship in the middle of it, despite still living at home, which kind of took a hit on my ability to save, but I still kept doing it. Got dumped, still kept saving. Hit quite a low point post-relationship where I wanted to pack in the job, dreams, hopes, aspirations, and instead just live at home alone, consuming media and not speaking to anyone till I died.....I still kept saving.

Reason I'm posting this here is today I finally met my deposit goal that I made for myself all those years ago, and I feel kind of proud of myself. I've already got my mortgage in principle and now I just need to find somewhere. Finally feel it's an actual thing I can do, rather than just a pipe dream.

I know I could've put this in the Living At Home Thread, but I feel it might be a bit boastful and like I'm waving my willy in people's faces, which I don't want to do. So I'll do it here But seriously, this is the one thing that is keeping me going just now, so I kind of wanted to crow about it!
Reply With Quote
  #761  
Old 31st May 2022, 12:29
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ fantastic! Well done, Fin! hope you find a great place soon.

_______

Not quite as exciting but I'm looking forward to Spring Watch this evening! I hadn't realise that it started yesterday :D
Reply With Quote
  #762  
Old 31st May 2022, 20:45
Rocket Spud Rocket Spud is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 15,782
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

**** all.
Reply With Quote
  #763  
Old 31st May 2022, 21:50
Finlay Finlay is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 185

Mood
Sad

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Thanks Biscuits! And hey, Springwatch is exciting too! I love to have it on in the background as I potter about my room

Thanks too, The*Crafty*Elf! Actually I feel bad referring to Watching as tat - although I've never got round to watching it yet, I do have fond memories of my Mum watching it in the late 80s, which is partly the reason I bought it I will actually give it a proper shot
Reply With Quote
  #764  
Old 1st June 2022, 15:37
Dougella Dougella is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: UK
Posts: 22,859

Mood
Cynical

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ Well done Finlay, that's great! (And yes, it's never a good idea to wave your willy in people's faces, they don't like it )
Reply With Quote
  #765  
Old 1st June 2022, 15:59
anxiouslondoner anxiouslondoner is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Pandaemonium, SE27
Posts: 7,153
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Four days off.
Just hope I can avoid the forelock-tugging celebrations of Royalist owner-worship that are sweeping the country.
Reply With Quote
  #766  
Old 1st June 2022, 16:07
Consolida Consolida is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2013
Posts: 5,612
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

@Finlay - Well done you on saving up for a deposit, that's a wonderful achievement, and I wish you many years of good health and happiness in your very own home
Reply With Quote
  #767  
Old 1st June 2022, 22:15
Moksha Moksha is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Essex
Posts: 3,607
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Quote:
Originally Posted by The*Crafty*Elf
I love old British comedies
Just been watching a repeat of Dear John from the 1980s. I vaguely remember this being on when I was a kid. The last series ended in 1987, a year before I started at my horrible comprehensive, so I would have been around nine or ten.

I have a weird affection for old British comedies. Most of them aren't all that funny (certainly not compared to something like Alan Partridge or The Office or Peep Show), but I find them weirdly comforting – Steptoe and Son, Hancock's Half Hour, The Good Life...they're like old friends.

What are your favourite's crafty elf?
Reply With Quote
  #768  
Old 1st June 2022, 22:49
anxiouslondoner anxiouslondoner is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Pandaemonium, SE27
Posts: 7,153
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I look forward to nobody pretending to give a flying fig about the queen again.
It's quite ridiculous when every business has Jubilee-related signs up and you know 99% of them are just trying to milk it for money. Even though it puts people like me off seeing this blatant marketing barrel-scraping.

At least we can have some quiet for a while after until one of the royals farts, kicks the bucket or squeezes out another backup monarch.
Reply With Quote
  #769  
Old 2nd June 2022, 09:41
Mellie Mellie is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2012
Posts: 885
Blog Entries: 1

Mood
Gloomy

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

looking forward to getting out of this hospital...
Reply With Quote
  #770  
Old 2nd June 2022, 11:38
Quietman Quietman is offline
Banned at own request
 
Join Date: Apr 2022
Posts: 709
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ On the buses is one of my favourite comedies.
Reply With Quote
  #771  
Old 2nd June 2022, 13:22
Moksha Moksha is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Essex
Posts: 3,607
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Quote:
Originally Posted by The*Crafty*Elf
Oh, Dear John is such a fab comedy. I haven't watched that in a couple of years now so it's due a repeat on my "Playback" channel i think

Here are a list of some of my favourites:

Nearest & Dearest,
On The Buses,
Are You Being Served?
Steptoe & Son,
Romany Jones,
That's My Boy,
In Loving Memory,
The Rag Trade,
Sorry!,
Hi-De-Hi,
You Rang M'Lord,
Fresh Fields,
George & Mildred,
You're Only Young Twice,
Home To Roost,
For The Love Of Ada,
Spring & Autumn

To name but a few. I do love a big old non PC giggle to get me out of myself
Are You Being Served is great - really underrated. And Steptoe and Son is like an old friend.

How about the Carry Ons? Carry On Up the Kyber is surprisingly funny. There is a scene in which private widdle (the brilliant Charles Hawtrey) hides a hot water bottle up his kilt and his sergeant discovers it. Cracks me up every time.
Reply With Quote
  #772  
Old 3rd June 2022, 15:37
Quietman Quietman is offline
Banned at own request
 
Join Date: Apr 2022
Posts: 709
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I’m looking forward to hopefully putting up my cold frame and starting some seeds off, the only problem is all I do lately is sit on the floor in my bedroom, which is an absolute tip you can just about get to the bed my rowers still in the box and nothing seems to get done.
Reply With Quote
  #773  
Old 13th June 2022, 10:41
Finlay Finlay is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2014
Posts: 185

Mood
Sad

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I won't quote, but thank you Dougella and Consolida (from your posts on 1st June - sorry for late reply!)
Reply With Quote
  #774  
Old 10th July 2022, 08:32
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Going to Cambridge today
Reply With Quote
  #775  
Old 10th July 2022, 12:02
Percy Percy is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Apr 2019
Location: Southampton
Posts: 10,832

Mood
Breezy

Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Have fun today biscuits
Reply With Quote
  #776  
Old 6th August 2022, 11:32
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Aw thank you Percy. I didn't see this before
Reply With Quote
  #777  
Old 11th August 2022, 09:46
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

The peak of the Perseid Meteor shower on 12th August.

It coincides with a super moon (the last super moon of the year).

Saturn will also be more visible.

what a treat!
Reply With Quote
  #778  
Old 21st August 2022, 08:51
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

Well, I saw a few meteors but the super moon made it tricky to see any more. Hopefully next year the sky is just as clear and the moon isn't so super. I've been ever so tired from a few nights of staying up late to do some star gazing.
Reply With Quote
  #779  
Old 8th January 2023, 20:16
biscuits biscuits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: in the tin.
Posts: 8,941
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

I joined an online board game group for socially anxious gals and I'm going to my first online zoom meet tomorrow. It's going to be fun :D
Reply With Quote
  #780  
Old 8th January 2023, 21:18
newbs16 newbs16 is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2012
Posts: 13,285
Blog Entries: 1
Default Re: What are you looking forward to?

^ Good luck biscuits

Sent from my SM-A530F using Tapatalk
Reply With Quote
Reply


Forum Jump


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 11:38.


SAUK Award
Logo designed by abc
Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.