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18th January 2019, 22:23
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One in ten don't orgasm.
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#2
18th January 2019, 22:37
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
I can orgasm on my own, but never with a partner. And I've been with a couple of men who were very good in bed. I just can't orgasm with another person. It's me, not them.
I've never faked it though, I'm a bad actress.
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#7
19th January 2019, 23:23
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
^ I was more alluding to the fact that you'll not have experienced a female orgasm personally, or the work it can take to reach one quite frankly. It's worth it if you do though, that's what I mean. No I don't think orgasms are the be all and end all but one in ten women is a very high number not to be experiencing them at all. You are right though that intimate connection is the most important thing.
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#8
20th January 2019, 11:47
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
Not surprising really if the woman is on oral contraception, these can wipe out your sex drive.
I probably could without a condom but I don't want to end up with crotch goblins and the feear of that happening super outweighs an orgasm. I'll orgasm by myself thanks
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#10
20th January 2019, 12:23
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
^ are they babies?
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#12
20th January 2019, 12:47
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
Guhhh theres a whole lot of things I could say about this but I just.....whats the point. I never intended to be a feminist and I certainly wasn't raised one, but damn if everything in the world hasn't been violently forcing me towards it for my whole existence.
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#16
20th January 2019, 15:19
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
^ Perhaps women not having enough knowledge of how their own bodies work and not feeling confident enough to explore for themselves, maybe still some level of stigma against women masterbating and maybe women feeling unable to tell their partner exactly what they like or what works for them.
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#17
20th January 2019, 15:26
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
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Yeh it really does, there's just so much bullshit and misunderstanding about sex in general from all sides that you could spend your life shouting about it till you die of exhaustion. Its all so tied up with peoples insecurities, egos and thousands of years of culture that its almost not even worth trying to discuss it with people sometimes. I think I will leave it to the next generation and hope they make a better job of it.
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#18
20th January 2019, 18:09
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
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It's not a feminist issue, as you are not denied the right to orgasm  I had a quick look online, apparently 92% of American men masturbate, therefore 1 in 10 don't orgasm from masturbation. Assuming it was difficult for men to orgasm during sex (as it is for women) this would be the same amount never experiencing an orgasm, just as with women.
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#19
20th January 2019, 18:57
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
^ Surely, it's 92% admit to masturbating
 I'm not sure who conducted the survey, but if women are prepared to admit to not climaxing; presumably if they're that bothered, they'd do something about it. I think it's different when a partner is involved, as it becomes less about your own pleasure, which creates a lot of pressure. That doesn't exactly help on the orgasm front! It's a shame men can't experience the way a woman climaxes and women can't experience an orgasm the way men do. The male way looks much more fun 
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#20
20th January 2019, 19:21
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Re: One in ten don't orgasm.
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Also that could be 92% of American men saying they masturbate, but not that they never have or that they've never had an orgasm. (I'm not saying that men don't have sexually related problems either, it's just your example doesn't prove much.)
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