'Friends'

[Fяαηкιє]

I didnt have any at all but a couple of months ago i got back in with the old ppl i used 2 hang about with. Im pretty reliable an when i plan suton i do it but they rnt like tha. Its happened 3 times now my 'friend' an me av made plans an he's the 1 whos asked me lol an he's let me down every time. Yesterday he asked me if i wanted 2 go out an do suton today so i sed yer. I get redy today an txt him an he sed he mite not b knockin he's out drinkin with his uncle. Ther constantly lettin me dwn. Am begginin to wonder if i was better off without them on my own an shud i just forget about them or just use them for suton 2 do now an agen. I dnt like usin ppl but if im bein treated like tha then mite aswell. The best thing wud b to find new friends but its difficult with SA as u all no. What do u think i shud do?

[Fяαηкιє]

Doesnt matter i no wa 2 do now play them at ther own game init

[Winnie57]

Treat them as they treat you - casually and hope to find some true friends in time

[Fяαηкιє]

Its difficult for me cos im a nice person but it will have to be done if i want to keep my pride. Thanks for the reply.

[Johnni]

Originally Posted by F***1103;***945;***951;***1082;***953;***1108;

Im pretty reliable an when i plan suton i do it but they rnt like tha. Its happened 3 times now my 'friend' an me av made plans an he's the 1 whos asked me lol an he's let me down every time.

Something?

[Fяαηкιє]

Originally Posted by Johnni

Something?

yer

[Johnni]

Originally Posted by F***1103;***945;***951;***1082;***953;***1108;

yer

Yes?

[Fяαηкιє]

Lol i thought u mite be takin the piss its easily understood even for a divvy like u

[Johnni]

The 1st one i was genuinly unsure if it actually meant 'something', the 2nd i was just taking the piss. I just find your posts hard to read so have to re-read them when i come across a 'text speak' word

[Fяαηкιє]

Ok

[Fяαηкιє]

Originally Posted by Lee Stevenson

But that's just what they're doing to you - using you. I used to have friends like that, they were only ever there when they wanted something. There were times when I really needed them but they simply weren't interested. I let that go on for a long long time because I think when you have low self-esteem you tend to think that maybe you don't deserve any better and allow yourself to be used and treated badly. Also, as you say, it's very hard trying to make new friends when you have SA.

You could decide to accept them for what they are and be the same with them or try to find some new, perhaps more genuine friends.

Yer i suppose they are usin me. I think the best thing to do would be to stick with them an recognise how ther treatin me an do the same back. Hopefully ill find some true friends later on an wave bye bye to the dick eds lol. Lifes a bitch :rolleyes:

[Fяαηкιє]

Originally Posted by Lee Stevenson

Certainly hope so mate. You deserve better.

Thanks m8