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pAuL1974 · #31 2nd February 2008, 14:18

Sorry to hear the news.

Condolences to you and the family.

Azi · #32 2nd February 2008, 15:44

My heart goes out to you and your family Heather. x

monty_rp · #33 2nd February 2008, 18:37

I'm so sorry to hear about your son Heather, nobody deserves this kind of loss, especially the caring and compassionate person that you are

Ditherer · #34 2nd February 2008, 19:06

Hello Winsome.

I'm really sorry about your loss. I can't imagine how you must feel.

From your posts you seem a very compassionate and giving person. I hope you have some similar support closeby to you.

Ditherer

marbles · #35 2nd February 2008, 23:22

oh winnie, i'm so sorry. you're in my thoughts, seriously. chris.

Rick Sanchez · #36 3rd February 2008, 00:04

Oh God, I didn't see this earlier...

I'm terribly sorry to hear this, Heather.

We're all here for support, so you're not on your own.

The Lone Stranger · #37 3rd February 2008, 02:01

Sorry to hear the sad news Winnie.

Winnie57 · #38 3rd February 2008, 12:28

Thank you everyone

Andist · #39 3rd February 2008, 12:56

This is the first time I've logged in for days.

I don't know what to say except that my thoughts are with you Heather!

I'm so sorry to read this!

Love And xxxxxxx

Winnie57 · #40 3rd February 2008, 23:23

Thank you for your further comments. It is indeed a tragedy. I'm sorry I haven't been able to comment more on your replies. I am very upset obviously. I have yet to identify the body. It is in the hands of the coroner at the moment. It was an overdose but I'm not sure if it was deliberate or not.

Thank you all so much for caring.

Medea · #41 3rd February 2008, 23:28

I am so very sorry winnie. I wish I could say more and express how sad I feel for you about the death of your son. It is such a tragedy and my heart goes out to you.

Mouse · #42 4th February 2008, 00:09

paulthequiet · #43 4th February 2008, 00:11

Oh my goodness I've only just read about this, I'm so sorry to hear that Heather. My condolences

incommunicado · #44 4th February 2008, 13:16

Sorry to hear of your loss Heather

I'mGonnaBeAWheelSomeday · #45 4th February 2008, 17:36

My condolences to you and your family Winnie

indiegirl1980 · #46 4th February 2008, 18:07

So sorry to read this Winnie, especially as you were worried about him and his lifestyle when it was his birthday. Try not to blame yourself, you tried your best to get through to him.

He is at peace now.

tigzey · #47 6th February 2008, 06:33

Just read the post, I'm so sorry about your son winnie, my thoughts are with you and your family.

xx

Winnie57 · #48 6th February 2008, 23:18

Thank you for your messages.

The post mortem was today. There was no evidence of a natural disease causing the death so it looks like it was an overdose as suspected. They are sending samples of blood and tissues etc and we will have the results in a few weeks. Then there will be an inquest which I can go to if I want but I don't have to.

The funeral is next Wednesday afternoon. The vicar is coming to see me in the morning to discuss arrangements for the service. I don't think I need to say how I am feeling.

gonemad · #49 7th February 2008, 06:52

ive only just come back today and seen this thread.
im sorry for your loss.
take care and stay strong.

Peyre · #50 17th February 2008, 15:03

We're all with you Winnie

Winnie57 · #51 18th February 2008, 02:42

Thanks Peyre and gonemad - it's good to know I have support of people here.

jetski · #52 10th March 2008, 00:48

been away and wrapped up in my own stuff, but pales into insignificance compared to what you're having to deal with.....thinking of you and feel for you winnie x

Winnie57 · #53 10th March 2008, 02:14

Thank you Jetski. It isn't getting much easier I'm afraid. But thanks for your nice thoughts and good to see you back on the forum.

Noah · #54 10th April 2008, 00:21

I'm so sorry to hear that Winnie, just popped in , had alot to deal with over the last few months. I hope you're ok, take care hun

Winnie57 · #55 11th April 2008, 16:17

^ Thanks Noah. It's nice to see you here and thank you for thinking of me. I'm not too bad. Depressed but getting by.

Hope you're okay.

Winnie57 · #56 21st April 2008, 14:05

Sorry to bump this up again but just had the results of the toxicology. It was a heroin overdose that caused my son's death. I don't know why but I feel a huge sense of relief at having this news.

The inquest will be very soon.

W!llow · #57 21st April 2008, 14:29

does that mean it was likely accidental Winnie? It must be a relief to have the results back.

Winnie57 · #58 21st April 2008, 14:36

^ I don't know if it was accidental W!llow. All I know is that the dose was fatal and yes it is a relief. It has dispelled all doubts from my mind about how it may have happened. I just hope he didn't suffer too much.

W!llow · #59 21st April 2008, 14:46

yes it must have been very hard not knowing. :hug3:

Wheelie Bin Bird · #60 21st April 2008, 20:58

Quote:

Originally Posted by Winsome

Sorry to bump this up again but just had the results of the toxicology. It was a heroin overdose that caused my son's death. I don't know why but I feel a huge sense of relief at having this news.

The inquest will be very soon.

Either way it's so hard so painful, my heart goes to you Heather.

Katie.xx